My first girlfriend was crazy…
But the weirdest part was that I didn’t know it at the time. I thought my relationship was totally normal.
I thought that fights and conflict and unhappiness had to be a part of the relationship.
She was too busy studying to give me the time, attention and sex that I wanted…at least that’s what she said.
I’d lay in bed next to her listening to my roommate railing his girlfriend in the next room while she held me.
Twice she felt so bad that she locked herself in the bathroom and purposefully burned herself with the iron…after 2 and a half years of this, I escaped to Japan.
Unfortunately, while I escaped her, I took myself with me…
And that meant the next girl was even worse. But at least this time there was a lot of wild sex. Unfortunately, all my ripped clothes were from the fights and not from the sex…
I somehow thought it was a good idea to move in with this girl and after 3 months, I had to make a run for it. She came home from work one day and all my shit was GONE!
I haven’t dated a single crazy girl since.
That doesn’t mean it was smooth sailing from then on…I still had many mistakes ahead of me.
My third girlfriend came over to find me naked in bed with another girl once!
But by then, I’d learned enough that I was able to calm her down, and get her to leave and our relationship resumed as normal for several more years.
This girl and the girls after her were far more attractive women, and they try to do a lot for me.
They wash me in the shower, give me massages, cook and clean for me, have sex with me on demand, help me with my work and I’ve even borrowed money from them when I was in a pinch.
And I never have fights with them. I had no idea things could be this good.
In the Relationship Mastery Seminar, you’ll learn how I structure my relationships, the mindsets I have, how I “on-board” girls and get them doing more of what I want so that I also want to work harder on the relationship.
And of course, you’ll also learn exactly what pitfalls to look out for so you don’t have to make the same mistakes I did.
As RedpoleQ put it, you’re always training girls, whether you’re aware of it or not (and whether or not you’re aware of WHAT you’re training them to do). Reminded me of this scene in Alice in wonderland:
“Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?”
“That depends a good deal on where you want to get to,” said the Cat.
“I don’t much care where–” said Alice.
“Then it doesn’t matter which way you go,” said the Cat.
“–so long as I get SOMEWHERE,” Alice added as an explanation.
“Oh, you’re sure to do that,” said the Cat, “if you only walk long enough.”Since the relationship seminar, I’ve gotten a lot more clarity (and am still putting more thought into and discussing further in that group chat) what my ideal setup with girls looks like — so I now know with a lot more clarity WHERE I want to get to. And since I now have a much clearer understanding of this myself, I’m able to communicate that vision to my girls and the new girls I meet much more clearly, which gives them more incentive to stick around (because I’m painting a picture of what her long-term life looks like if she stays with me).
And it also allows me to reflect on everything I do and say when I’m with my girls, and whether that rewards her for moving closer to that vision or not. (E.g. I know which roads to take).
I still haven’t fully taken everything in, but already my interactions are looking very different.
-Romeo, Korea Lair leader
