Bootcamp with Kane October 2016

[Mysticmuseflyer]

Here is my first field report. I am posting this much after the fact of my first boot camp in China.

I did a boot camp in California but that is a different story as many of you know.

I think I resisted posting because I am at times shy and have issues about exposure. Also maybe I am embarrassed because so far I am not the best at game. This is precisely why I finally decided to post and get over that. Even though, I am such a novice at game, I have been with a several girls (not several for PUA standards). I was a national class swimmer in US and that was enough to get girls until I was 40. Now that status is just interesting trivia. So here I am older than that....I love Chinese girls in there twenties ( usually late 20's and not 20) and that maybe isn't the easiest to pull off at my age, but I am committed to get good enough to make it happen. I notice I really rely on being in a good state. So far, I really need to be in my best confidence to get anywhere.

 

Day 1 Shanghai. During my first day game session I kept using the "Do you know where Starbucks is?" "Can you tell me if there is a Starbucks's here?" The first few times I was so incongruent that the girl just walked away.

But the forth time I actually engaged a girl.

 

Kane pointed out that my posture was poor and showed me a photo. So I walked up and stuck my chest out. "Hello, Can you tell me where Starbucks is? She got out here phone and began the "being helpful routine". I was so shocked she stopped, it took a second to say anything. "Wow, your English is so good. I high fived her." "Oh no it's not so good she said." "No I am an English professor" I said "and you speak better than many of my students" (not really, maybe better than 2 of my students.)

"Really!" she said. And she kept looking at here phone trying to help and maybe escape the conversation. "I think it is that way" she pointed. "Do you like coffee!" "No " she said. then there was an awkward silence and she said "I have to go"

 

Kane reminded me to ask them "What are you doing here?" or maybe "So what brings you here?" The next 3 sets went about the same way. Except I did ask "So what are you doing here?"

 

A small breakthrough.. I opened a 2 set of girls who were looking at English movies and English flyers. I still opened with the Starbucks line. They both got out there phones. Kane came over and asked "Which girl is the bad girl? I pointed. He boxed the other girl out and my target attempted to reconnect with her friend. "So do you know where Starbuck's is"

"Just let me look at my phone."

"Wow your English is so good!" I high fived her.

"Oh no it;s not."

"No really. ...so what are you looking at."

I like English movies she said."

"Oh cool!" I high fived her again. "No wonder you are so good" I high fived her again.

"I am an English professor."

"Really!" She softened a bit.

"So do you have we chat?" (she had shown no interest yet but being so new maybe I asked to early because she seemed impressed that I am a professor). She did get out her we chat and I scanned her but then she used that as an exit and She went for her friends hand and grabbed her and said "We have to go."

 

I did not do any kino but high 5, I did not remember any stacks and stumbled to find things to say other than.

I got a little better at checking my posture (but I quickly forgot and then next night Kane got a photo of me hunched over).

 

Day 1 night game. A bigger breakthrough (with some luck)

On the first night at the Zapatas. I look at this now and I think I was lucky. But I did some fairly good things here.

 

She was standing alone with a couple nearby. (Kane reminded me about my posture). I walked up to her and simply said "Hello"

"Hi" she said "how are you?" she asked in this British accent I was surprised but this gave me some material.

"Wow you speak good English!"

"Of course I do" she said. I high fived her.

"I Lived in England" she defended.

"Oh really" she said. the couple nearby approached her to see if she was ok and they man said something in her ear. "I am fine" she said. then she turned to me and said. "They are just my friends ...I am alone."

Just then Kane came up behind me. and said "Put your arm around her." I don't know how Kane sensed this. (now I know because that's Kane but then I thought ...what about the steps hand, elbow shoulder.) I looked at Kane in dismay. Then he did me a big favor. HE moved behind her so she could not see. Here and I were facing each other at a right angle. Kane grabbed my arm and put it around her. I was nervous.

To my surprise she snuggled closer. So I held a little tighter.

I asked her "Do you want to dance?" "Yes!" she said. We started to dance and then I reached for her waist and pulled her in close. I kept caressing her back and waste and then I decided it was time to try and grind. I had never done that on the dance floor before.

Kane asked me if I want to stay after about 20 minutes dancing. (are you kidding I thought / but I am not used to this much progress within 20 minutes / but now I understand why he asked) I told him I wanted to stay.

 

Her friends came back over when we were dancing. Again she told them "I am fine" Then they came back again.

 

She asked my to come outside. She told me she had to go soon but she asked them for 10 more minutes. I asked he for we chat right then because I thought that when her friends come back they will probably grab her.

 

She gave me her we chat and then she said "I have some bad news." I said "what?"

"I live in Bejing" she said (we were in Shanghai)

I laughed ..... "I have some news too!" "I live in Beijing"

"Really?"

 

 

I was nervous when first approaching this girl. I did pull off a confident hello and I made sure my posture was also strong. I could have done more kino right away but I got lucky with the arm around her. When her friends interrupted I did not know what to do . I got lucky because at this time she was into me (I thought) and she defended staying with me. I think I could have done more with joking about her British accent early on.

 

I asked her out for a date 2 days later. That night she got a little drunk and she kept calling me "Professor" but then she said "Professor I won't sleep with you tonight." "You'll have to wait to get back to Beijing"

"I decided not to push it" So we went out in Beijing 2 days after that and banged most of the night. I am not sure if this was the best move but we did go out several times.

[Everything 4 us]

Wow! Your story really ended with a bang. Your report is really helpful.