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Well unfortunately, I was not shown how to seduce not using English. At the bootcamp I was using English most of the time in a Tier One city. A language-free lure (technique) was not in the mix. Unfortunately, I can't download '48 laws, Charisma Myth or Art of Seduction'. All links lead to bullshit advertisments or virus traps. Unfortunately, I have not the interest to endure another 'busy or boyfriend' excuse from any of these girls beyond the language barrier - IF they do speak English, they still have a full schedule I have to penetrate with my low moral as a solitary PUA with a capricious background. Too much work me. Unfortunately, I have snapped back into my isolating habits which retard any interest whatsoever into talking with busy, text-zombies who have boyfriends with the advantage of speaking their own language. Unfortunately, I work weekends which doesn't bode well here with girls having freetime on days I have off. Unfortuantely, I live in a Tier3 (or4) city with a heavy conservative emphasis on getting married. Me with a religious background (that I'm trying to forget), doesn't like to encounter this marital shit. It's not just the bummer of getting locked into a marital debt bomb but also being subordinated and relegated by the girl and her peers due to my lingual limitations. Yes, there is Resistance here. What's the solution? It's just me here, as usual, relying on my willpower to 'wait' for perfect external conditions to trigger interest into doing this again. This is not fun. I thought this was supposed to be fun. Sure, it's fun to get a WeChat. It's not fun afterwards to get blown off or tell me they're at work or their boyfriends work. Fuckin bullshit makes me wonder why not head to Thailand in the Fall because it's cold and lonely here in the Winter. Coupled with the fact, unfortunately, that Kane is simply too busy to respond to my needs. I made the retarded decision to stay in this city, deceiving myself that I can easily lure a China doll into my apartment. This has to be fun for me to do this: Attraction versus Promotion. I am locked, frozen, not budging, isolated, discouraged, demoralized and downright pissed off with this fate. The ONLY thing I relate to in 'Way of the Superior' is the ETERNITY factor. Of course this is familiar with me, I was pursuing monasticism years back, being duped by a controlling fear-religion not based on history. The rest I DO NOT relate with. I have no woman, children or career interests. Money has never been a problem with me, getting beautiful pussy has. This book assumes I have this shit. I don't! Look, I'm divorced. I married/divorced a fat chick because of religion. I divorced her because she wanted (wants?) to be a TV blob. It was a fucking nightmare. I don't want to read shit on how to treat a woman. I know how to treat people, afterall, I was living the Golden Rule tenaciously for 16 years! There is no aspiration other than getting the HB; thus I don't relate. Unfortantely, I have Resistance so I can relate to what's mentioned in the War of Art. Yes, I read these books and they're somewhat inspiring. But, unfortunately, I don't see where I'm going to get the motivation to overcome my Bullshit/Resistance. I'm alone here. No one is here in the flesh to encourage me. NO one gives a shit. All I see in the Beijing WeChat are PUAs living the high life. I ain't going to relate to that. I don't see how to get what they have and I certainly do not want to be talked down to because I'm still stuck in religious retardation or isolating habits.

Hello, I'm the new guy, a beginner and probably the only practicing, conscious, English speaking, PUA in this city. Approaching is easy since I dabbled with it in the US. The girls are way more friendly on this side of the pond (in Asia that is). Getting the WeChat is a cake walk. The real problem is the follow up, which means learning/speaking more Chinese and keeping it out of the friend zone. I have girls for friends right now but I don't want friends: I want power. I want skills. I want seductive lures. I want transformation. There's less English here but occasionally I do meet some girls who speak fluently. Thus I have two categories: English speaking babes (less common) and Chinese speaking babes (everywhere). I feel this where I'm lacking, the follow up that is. I'm rather unsure of myself and afraid of rejection and/or failed relationship. After taking the Boot Camp, I am very inspired to learn Chinese but I do succumb to lethargy since I'm on my own here in Hohhot, Inner Mongolia. Basically I don't see how to seduce the China babe when I speak limited Chinese. I do have my notes from Boot Camp but I fail to see how I can accomplish what was suggested since there was so much information given with many subtle rules. I can't see the connection from what was learned and how to apply it to my current reality. I'm stuck because I think I must improve my Chinese before making more approaches, which means I have to wait . . . again. I'm fresh meat here, so go easy on me.