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Um....That is not a boyfriend. 6 days? no. Cheated? No. So you need to understand that there are real boyfriends and not real boyfriends. That label gets thrown around quite loosely in Korea. Partially because girls will "only sleep with their boyfriend" so Korean guys ask a girl to be their girlfriend on the 1st or 2nd date. This makes it ok for the girl to have sex, but that is NOT a real relationship. So don't buy into other peoples lame frames. Try to study and see the reality beyond the labels. Is she Korean? Why were you texting in English? Thank you for your reply. The girl is Korean. In addition, she spoke decent English and was comfortable to have a conversation in that language. I am also feeling like she may also be a sex worker as well. Her attitude was very sketchy. I am still trying to analyze the situation. I agree... a lot of times Korean girls will say that "he is my BF" after sleeping for 1 night with a guy. At the end of the day I think either 1. I was a player 2. She was an even bigger player 3. We both got what we wanted and played each other.

Yesterday was a very interesting and unusual day. I ended up getting laid with Micky Mouse Ears after we had dinner, done some vampire makeup, played doll games, drank some alcohol and headed to a motel. Here is the story of what happened. Today my friend Kevin had a date. Kevin wanted me to tag along because he informed me that his date is bring another girl so that we would have a double date. However, the problem is that Kevin's girl never brought the other girl because she forgot so I was very sad. There was no double date. It was just Kevin, his girl and I. We decided to go to Itaewon and have Korean BBQ outside. While we were eating... I was very lonely and depressed. I didn't want to ruin Kevin's set with his girl and I didn't have a girl to talk with. In my mind, I started to talk to myself and said this really sucked and I wanted to leave... but being the nice guy that I am... I just kept my mouth shut. 20 minutes later... Micky Mouse Ears (Korean girl with blond hair that I met 1 month ago) came skipping along the sidewalk. She had vampire makeup on her face since it was a Halloween party in Itaewon. She saw me and said "Hey I remember you!! You were that guy I met last time at Itaewon!" I smiled and said "Yeah that was me... come join us at our table." She joined us and we continued eating Korean food but this time it was the 4 of us... not 3 as before. As we were eating, Micky Mouse Ears wanted to do my face to make me a vampire too. She wanted to put makeup on it so we decided to head to the makeup store. I told Kevin and his girl "We will be back so please wait for us at the restaurant." When we got to the makeup store, Micky Mouse Ears went to work on my face. As she was applying Halloween makeup on my face, I slowly started to kino her legs and body. I even went for the kiss on the ears but she recoiled. I then went back to soft kino on her body. When she was done we headed back to the restaurant where Kevin and his girl was waiting. However, along the way Micky Mouse Ears saw a Korean lady selling a vampire cape and wanted it really badly. She said "Andrew I really want this... you pay for me sweety?" I was very reluctant but I did anyway. Since she did make me happy by being there and did my makeup..... as a kind gesture I bought it for her. It cost me $20. When we got back to the restaurant the food was all gone and we decided to leave after talking a little bit more. We went to a doll machine store where Micky Mouse Ears spent like $7 on trying to win a Pikachu and a Hello Kitty doll but failed. As she was playing, I hugged her from behind. She really enjoyed that and felt like she was receiving great pleasure from me. What shocked me was that she started rub her butt against my dick. It felt so good! Micky Mouse Ears smiled and then lightly hugged me. Later that night, we went for more drinks/food. While we were there.... we played drinking games. I started to kino Micky Mouse Ears on the leg and finally kissed her neck. I could tell she was really into me that this point. She then lightly rubbed her hand on my cock. Then Micky Mouse Ears and I kissed on the lips. It felt really good. After Kevin and his girl saw this they too did the same. Micky Mouse Ears whispered into my ear and said "Do you like to fuck"... and I nodded my head and said "Only with a girl like you." She smiled and laughed. She then said that she was really broke and wanted me to pay for the motel. I said ok. After we left the drinking place she insisted that I go to an ATM to pull money. While I was there pulling money she tried to press the $200... however I stopped her and only pulled out $100. She said $60 for the motel and $40 for me. I then told her that I would think about it. When we got to the motel... I paid $60 for the room and Micky Mouse Ears just took the $40 remaining out of my hand and put it in her bag. If I was not getting laid I would have been not okay with it but because she was offering sex... I let it go. When we got to the motel... I realized that the room that I paid for was the room she was sleeping in the night before. It was super messy with all her trash in it. I saw another condom on the floor that some other guy probably used. We laid on the bed and we both removed the vampire makeup on our faces. We dimmed the lights and started to make out. She then gave me light blowjob... As I was trying to finger her she said that she doesn't like it when guys finger her so I moved my hands back to her body and continued to kino her there. She then told me that she wanted me to fuck her so I pulled out a condom. She was super wet. Then she said "Hey if you don't want to use a condom then thats okay. I wont get pregnant because when i was 20... I had surgery and became sterilized. I am unable to have babies!" I then questioned myself if I should do it... but she took the condom off for me and stuck it in her raw! I was too weak to resist!!! While having sex.. I was so drunk/wasted I couldn't cum. 10 minutes later... I just decided to masturbate in front of her until I was ready to cum. When I had that feeling I told Micky Mouse Ears to come closer with her lips. I then busted in her mouth and to my surprise she swallowed! We then cuddled in bed and went to sleep. About 30 minutes later Micky Mouse Ears went to the bathroom to pee with her cellphone. She called her boyfriend and started to cry. Micky Mouse Ears said that her boyfriend for 6 days got into a motorcycle accident and is now in the emergency room. When she told me all about this..I was so shocked that she cheated on him and decided to have sex with me! She said that she had to go see him because she was worried about him. Since she looked so sad and I was too drunk and tired to care I let her go.... She left and I just stayed and slept in the motel and she never came back. 2 hours later she txt messaged me and said that she wanted to introduce me to her friend. I said "Is it a boy or a girl"... she said "It was a boy" and I just said "No." I then said "I really enjoy spending time with you because you make me happy but I feel very shy and uncomfortable seeing another guy that I do not know." Afterwards, I did not hear back from her. When I woke up from my sleep... I left her motel room and that was the end of the night. Total damage done was $120. To be honest, I don't know if I was the player or if I was the one that got played by the player? Maybe we both played each other and we both got what we wanted at the end of the night? What do you think about this situation?

Today I would like to share my experience with a Russian girl that I recently had success with. I was chilling in South Korea near the Han River and there were fireworks scheduled for the afternoon. There were many lovely couples in the area and people were really enjoying themselves. While I was walking along the street, I noticed a russian girl that was kinda out of place. She was standing next to a tree by herself. She looked kinda cute so I went up to her and ask "Do you know what time the fireworks start?" She looked at me and responded "It starts at 8pm." We then had small talk and I asked a lot of questions. We got to know each other a little bit more personally (i.e. where are you from, what are you doing in Korea and etc). Afterwards, I brushed my arm close to her and said that "I was cold." She suggested that I buy one of the 2,000W blankets (which I did) to warm myself up. 2 minutes later, the fireworks started and we both enjoyed the scene. I then told her that I was still cold. She surprisingly took my arm and wrapped it around hers "Feeling better now?" I looked at her eyes and said "This is the warmest feeling I've felt all night... your like an amazing hotpack." She smiled and laughed really hard. I then asked her "Are you doing anything after the fireworks." and she responded by saying "no not really... I am on vacation." To my excitement I knew what I wanted... a 1 night stand! I then looked at her with my gleaming eyes and said "I know this really amazing place that serves the best grape beer ever.. you gotta try it! Its actually very famous." After the fireworks she agreed and we went to Sindang. When we were at the bar I started to ask more personalized questions by throwing out "assumption questions." I would say something like "It looks like you've been through a lot of hard times in your life and I would really like to know more about you. Just looking at your face I can see that there is something bothering you that makes you sad." She then looked at me a if I was reading her mind and then told me a very deep story about her life (which I will not share because it's very personal to her). Afterwards, when we finished drinking I said.. "hey I really like you... lets go somewhere." She agreed and we left the bar. While we were walking she would ask me "where are we going." and I responded by saying "someplace fun and warm.. its a surprise." As we approached closer to the motel and when she found out what was going on I told her "Hey it will be okay... you'll be fine!... I really like you and I want you to trust me." She hesitated a little and we went inside. When we were inside the motel she was saying a bunch of words in Russian. She was a little nervous and I was wondering if I made a mistake by bring her here. I then continued to comfort her and I used a line that Kane taught me at the summit. While she was kinda rejecting my touches in the beginning I said "I really enjoying spending time with you and I really like you... but you dont like me?" She then looked at me and said "I really like you too but I was not expecting sex." She then craved in after I was kissing her neck and said.. "okay are there condoms" and I pointed at the table where a pack was at. Afterwards, I kissed her and went for the "D move" GAME ON!!!

@Count Stackula right before I started the escalation process of kinoing her... the conversation was about my failure as a student and not graduating from middle school to working very hard to get my grades up which resulted in graduating from high school and going to college. @Redpole 1. Yeah maybe I gave up too easily. The second strike in the coffen was that she also had her bag between me and her. I think she put it there on purpose to send me a signal that "its not happening" I could be wrong. What would you do if you were in my situation to build the attraction and make have another run for the attempt? 2. I think I should have asked her questions like why dont you want to do it? I was going to ask her but then i felt that I could be coming off as pretty needy and it could further damage the situation. However, maybe that would have been the right move. I think my biggest problem is wording things to get an answer without sounding creepy (i.e. lets go on a date.... lets hangout and get lunch... basically the same meaning resulting in the same thing... but the 2nd option is more effective for day 2s and less creepy). How would you have started a discussion that would help unveil some answers? If you have any examples that makes it sound ok without coming off too creepy let me know.

Today I went on a surprise date with a girl after she asked me out on kakaotalk. I was really surprised that she made the first move since she is a chick and im the gentleman 1. SMOOTHIE- After conducting the logistics through kakaotalk we decided to meet up for smoothies near my place. She agreed to come to the station closest to my house and we went for our shakes. When we got to the store, we started general conversations about vacations, plans for the upcoming days and her busy work schedule. She discussed with me that she just came back from the beach with her friends the day before she decided to meet with me... I felt honored! I tried to kino by doing basic stuff (i.e. she was wearing a ring on her finger and I said.. let me see it and i started touching her hand/finger. I then proceeded to the earrings and then started to slowly touch the back of her ear). Afterwards we took a selfie of ourselves with our slushies in our hand. Afterwards I told her that I wanted to go for a walk. 2. THE WALK/MY HOUSE- after walking her through sindang.. i bounced her to my house. it was around 8:00 pm. I sat next to her on the couch. At first she placed her bag in between us. After noticing that it was in the way, i picked up her bag and talked about it (i.e. wow you must really like leather bags... i see that this leather is pretty nice). When I got the bag out of the way I scooted in next to her leg touching my leg. I then proceeded to tell her about my hero story of how I use to be such a looser when it came to academics and how I overcame it. Afterwards I started to touch her inner thigh and kissed the back of her ear. The problem was that after doing so she snapped back and said that it felt too soon. When that happened in my mind i was like OH SHIT!! IM SO FUCKED! I also noticed that she didn't display a huge range of emotions like the other girls did when I told them the same story. Her face looked almost like she acknowledged my story but it didn't leave her weeping to the point where she would say that I am such an awesome person. I was like...ok we shouldn't and then changed the thread by saying lets go to the park to get the awkwardness out of the way. 3. THE PARK- At the park nothing happened. All we did was observe what was going on and made small comments about them (i.e. a old lady power walking... she must be working out really hard). But we did have a good laugh at some of the jokes we made. Afterwards I tried to seed the next date by saying that I really like chicken and beer and you should come. She said yeah I think that would be nice and that was basically the end of the story. We separated back at the subway station and she gave me a friendly kiss on the cheek. From my observations... I think nerdy girls are so much harder than playgirls. I wonder if the female psychology is different than those of the other girls? My assumptions are 1. she probably is still a virgin or 2. she hasnt dated too many boys because of her shy demeanor.

Hello Everyone, I screwed myself over on this one. I had a pizza date with a chick.. she came over but not sex but she cried and left!! This is how it began... 1. TEXT- We txt messaged for like 2 days to figure out logistics of how we are going to meet and what we were going to do (see txt chat) I suggested a bunch of places to invite her but she refused and kept coming up with things she wanted to do but i didnt. I felt like a fucking retard because I should have just accepted her offer earlier instead of wasting time. However, I learned that it really doesnt matter where I meet the girl because I can always bounce her where ever i want! 2.PIZZA DATE- When we met for pizza, we talked about life in general and how fucked up society is. I personally didnt want to talk about this on a day 2 but since she kept bringing it up... i had to go along with it. I felt that this could work in my favor because she appeared to have the attitude of I dont give a fuck about this world. She said something like "this world if full of lies... what is reality? an illusion of what a person believes or thinks... then could it be possible that their reality is shaped by their own believes and thoughts. Is this what true reality is" At first I was like... wait a sec... she might have a point but afterwards she just got really annoying because she kept going on and on and everytime i tried to change the thread she keeps bring up the same old thread. 3. MY HOUSE- When we got to my place, i told her about my hero story. I kissed her and we made out. She blushed and her cheeks turned red. THen she just randomly started to cry after I tried to fclose her. I felt like a damn rapist at first because I thought it was my actions that made her cry. Then she said that she had a Boyfriend and in my mine i was like "WTF WTF WTF now you tell me this after conceiling it from me" ofcourse I didnt mention any of that but instead i tried to comfort her more... i asked her whats wrong.. it appears you are very sad. She said its okay and that I should not worry about her. Afterwards she said that she had to go and left my place promptly while still crying... OMFG... the most confusing fucking love story of my fucking life...

1. I wanted to throw her out because of fear that someone might come to my apartment early in the morning. After pumping and dumping 4 times... I just did not have any lust for her anymore because all my juices were gone. 2. I told a fake story because I need a lead in story to connect it to my story. If I went straight into my story... I think it might be weird... but to tell her that I can relate with a student just sounds much better

I got laid on the same day I met this 20 year old chick waiting for the subway at itaewon. AKA 1 night stand! 1. THE APPROACH, I sat down next to this 20 year old and asked her "When is the next train coming... its been a long time since I was waiting" She looked at me like i was fucking retarded and said "Look at the screen" I then explained to her that i was a gyopo and that I am not familiar with a lot of things. She then looked interested in me because she wanted to know what life is like in the United States. Afterwards before we departed I seeded her by saying "Do you like coffee" She said "Yes I do" I then proceeded by telling her that "I know this awesome coffee shop that serves the best americano.... let me get your number and i'll invite you sometime" We exchanged numbers and went our separate ways 2. THE TEXT MESSAGE, 2 minutes later i texted her IMMEDIATELY because I learned from my bootcamp training that the longer I wait the loss of ATTRACTION I will sustain. I said hi... she said hi back... then i showed her awesome pictures of me hanging out with my classmates from the hip hop class. The reason why I did this was to make her jealous and to show off how cool I am. She responded by sayng "wow are you a dancer?" I then explained to her that I wasnt and that I was a university student just like her. (i even showed a picture of my acceptance letter to SNU to show off to increase attraction. I then asked her to go out with me for coffee at 9:00pm. She agreed. 3. THE DATE, When I met her... I used a BT spike "Hey were you waiting for me?" She giggled up so much and we went to the coffee shop. I started to brag about myself of all the awesome things I did to further increase attraction. THEN I SWAPPED IT UP. I asked her "What are some qualities that makes you special?" and "What are you naturally good at?" I did this to go straight into the QUALIFICATION process. She went on and talked about her self for an HOUR.. (OMG i felt like banging my head against the wall) She would say anything and everything just to make herself sound good when infact she sounded like a looser. She was trying to prove to me that she was just as valuable as I was in society. I then added an element of SUSPENSE by saying that I got something that President Obama gave me. She asked me what it was... and i responded by saying that it was a surprise! I then asked her if she wanted to come over to my house... she said NO... and i responded by saying "dont you want to know what Obama gave me?" She said YES... then I was like then lets go... she said "OK!" 4. MY HOUSE, I sat her at my couch and immediately began by creating DEEP COMFORT. I made up a stupid story that isn't even real about how "I knew this kid who was failing English class and that he was crying because he had the drive and motivation to want to do better." I then connected to my true story "About how I was a looser and that I had a 1.7 GPA in middle school but made gradual improvement through high school" Afterwards I showed her my transcripts and she was amazed. She told me that "I am such an awesome person" I then showed her my Academic Achievement Certificate I got from president OBAMA.. She was amazed. She then moved in closer to me... legs touching mine and body to body contact. I then said "Thank you for listening" and I kissed her on the cheek to start the SEDUCTION process... afterwards I said "You deserve that" I then kissed her on the lips and said "You deserve that too" 5. SEX, after kissing her I took her to my bedroom. we made out for about 30 minutes. I tried to unzip her pants but she said "NO" I then said "Okay lets not" I then grabbed her hand and rubbed it against my dick. She appeared to like touching it ALOT!!! I then took her top off and we continued to make up by french kissing. Afterwards I attempted to take her pants off again... and this time she was COOL WITH IT!!! . We then filled 4 condoms. I was half tempted to throw her out on the streets after we were done but I did not do that because it was late at night and the last train ended. After sex... we just cuddled together and went to sleep! The bad thing for me was that she did not give me a blow job

Wow!? where should I begin. I would like to inform anyone reading this that the boot camp class that I took was very helpful. However, I was very skeptical at first almost to the point that I would constantly get into arguments. The reason for this is because when I first joined the bootcamp, it appeared to be more of a hangout among friends. In addition, during that time, i was very angry because our first activity was to understand ourselves. When we talked about our ideal girl and what we are interested in, I felt that this was not the right bootcamp for me because I wanted to learn technique and skills to get any women that I wanted. After bootcamp, I realized that I was totally wrong. It wasn't until the very end that I was able to connect the dots and understand that this exercise was ment to eliminate girls that will not suit our needs (i.e. qualification process). In addition, I learned that one of my true weaknesses was that I never really opened up to any girls about my failures. This is significant because if I want to make an emotional connection (deep comfort) it is important for the girl to understand who I am as a person. Field Experience 1. Our first place we gamed was at Hongdae. I was very nervous because I never really used pickup lines (i.e. you have a big bag but you are a small girl... do you have a cat in there?) as an opener to begin the set. I learned that a lot of these girls probably had a shitty day and just wanted someone that is very funny to play around with. In addition, I also immediately went straight into the qualification process by asking questions that were relevant to my interest (i.e. do you like to watch motivational movies? Do you like to go hinking?) After failing miserably for an hour I finally got lucky and opened a set that the girl actually laughed at the park!! (OMG happiest moment of my life)! 2. Our 2nd meeting was at Gangnam. To be honest, this was the hardest day for me. The reason is because I never EVER opened a walking set. Usually when I game... it is either at a language exchange or a hiking meetup where girls "want to talk to you." I learned how to position myself and to tap girls on the arm using the back of my hand. In addition, I applied the same principles (i.e. attraction, qualification and to some degree comfort). However, my biggest problem is that I kept freezing during the set after I open it because I ran out of things to say or i failed to say the right things due to bad timing (i.e. waiting too long for her to respond when I should have made a response for her. Later that night, we went to this club called syndrom. OMG THIS IS A SUPER HARD PLACE TO GAME! It was loud as fuck but the women were smoking hot!! I realized that at a place like this, it is important to use facial emotions (i.e. smile at the girl and hope that they crack up.... then try and talk with them. I definitely don't this this was my cup of tea but never the less it was great experience. I actually had more success gaming outside the club rather than inside. I also realize that if a girl does not act receptive towards your message it is important to keep plowing. At first one of the girls did not like me after I asked what her name was... she said sorry.... I said nice to meet you sorry... then she said please go away...... minutes later I went back to the set and said... Hi Sorry, cheer up. I love you.... and all her friends cracked up. (the big mistake was that I should have stayed in the set and tried to ask qualification questions and eventually seed a place where we could hangout for a 1st date like a coffee shop. 3. Day Three was actually a very emotional day. My instructor opened up about his story of how he was fired from his previous jobs and how it helped him become more happier in life. Although he failed, he also mentioned at the end how he overcame hardship to find happiness. All the trainees then did the same and I felt that our group had a stronger connection because of it. It made us feel like we were friends for a long time even though I only spent 3 days with them. We worked on our day game and ended the night with cheers for completing this bootcamp For anybody who is interested in this bootcamp experience that I went through, I would highly warn you that there will be times where you will get frustrated. However, if you can weather the storm and remain positive then you will be fine. Also, I firmly felt that this was a very good educational course as it taught me the essence of female psychology and how I can not only become closer to my lover but to other girls that are my friends. Im guessing that the only difference between a female friend and a lover is that you don't escalate to the seduction phase... (maybe?)