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Hehe, fo' sho'! Got to know on Sunday that my girl is doing TOEFL with a friend to refresh her English only. No plans of her to leave. Anyway, a pair of new big titties to squeeze needs to be found!
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Good idea to get to know about that in detail if I can! Thanks for the advice. You are right! Time to go out and crush it. Went out with Romeo and a guy from Japan yesterday & had good fun in Itaewon and Gangnam! My game is all rusty but my inner game improved a lot so approaching is generally no problem and I am kinda bulletproof against any girl attacks - I might have to think how to respond but it generally does not throw me off. I'd be probably more than happy to upgrade my "shield" with some crazy ass moves from chicas??? - give it to me baby, uhuhuh!???. Can't wait to get blown out in sets???
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She goes to Hagwon in Jonggak and is on the 421 Bus Line that goes to Gangnam. So tried to get her to meet either today or tomorrow before we meet on Sunday for the Cherry Blossom festival. I asked already yesterday to let me know if she had time but got no reply today I asked again and after 2hours I got a reply that she has no time on both dates. It just seems that she will not meet up more than every 2 to 4 weeks - no matter what she says...no wonder her relationships before were rather short as she told me before. It is her making it not easy to meet up frequently and then have enough time - because I remember countless events where something came up and she had to go earlier lols. In any case if she gets the TOEFL to go somewhere else to teach this will probably only last 3months more - or let us say about 2 - 3times meeting her (realistically...). I guess the sooner new talent can be found the better. She kinda set the bar very low for the next girl???. All up to me now to climb my way up from playboy purgatory to playboy heaven paradise!
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Same day same situation. Approach coundown...more adventures...
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Got to know that yoga88 is going to a hagwon to prepare for toefl. I asked her why she wants to do it but she said she will tell me next time we meet (which will be Sunday). I guess she is planning to get a job abroad for teaching probably in kindergarden or primary school. She mentioned something in this direction once before without clear details. Seems I am having good reasons to kick my ass to find a new girl soon lols. Anyway, not that I am seeing yoga88 often (it has been almost 2weeks haha...as a reg she is just such a bad choice...). Maybe this is also is a reason she is not meeting that often - although it is not unusual for her. All classic girl goodness! Planning to go out this week for sure since it is finally getting warmer!
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I am planning to go with Yoga88 to the cherry blossom featival this Sunday. Just set the date today. Let us see!
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HByoga88 went to a wedding of her friend somewhere in the countryside. So chilled out this weekend and went once to the new Thursday Party. Too many guys...But at least I made it out of the house. Gotta to do a PU Kaizen session to get going!
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No message from my side and no message from her side either today - which is not abnormal at all. Will just send a good night message! An easy win for the lazy man!
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More good girls out in Seoul. I guess it is almost hard not to open at some point. Also thinking about these extra Testoterone boosting advantages from approaching for extra gym muscle gainz including banging that also boosts Testoterone! The biggest Testo Booster is just outside waiting for the ROCK hehe!
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Normal yoga88 day so nothing special. Keep seeing good girl that show off their legs since it is getting warmer. Seems that they are waiting for the ROCK to open them?...#makeithappen
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Actually it is good that yoga88 requires super low maintenance so I do not use up a lot of money and time and also could easily slide in some other girl too. Just gotta figure out when...best ASAP kkk!
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I do not know. Does not seem so but I have not tried really hard to meet her lols.
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I got to know that it will be a red tulip and my girl seems really excited to take care of this flower calling it her "Baby Minnie Tulip". Just the the regularly 2 to 3 messages exchange as usual. I was thinking to find out what I like and what I do not like about her. Like : - Relationship freedom, relatively low effort in managing, sporty (does yoga), fashion, takes care of herself and body, likes travelling, willing to try new things/open-mindedness Not like : - Kind of unpredictable/unreliable, does not text much (good & bad), conservative korean family (cannot stay over, has to be home on time, family events...), drinks sometimes too much lols Seems I need to work actively on this relationship with her...
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Yoga88 is still the same. It is a daily 1 or 2 messages dialogue or sometimes also only pictures she sent. I just know she sends more messages to her friends on Kakao (I see sometimes here convos and the she is telling me stories about her friend - the last story was that her friend forgot her ID & wallet while on the way to Gimpo Airport to catch a flight to Jejudo). I got a picture at 1:37am from the tulip I gave her on Thursday we met (got this tulip on a sidejob last weekend). She gave the tulip a name and calls it Minnie haha. Anyway, still should plow through to go out and meet other girls but missing the motivation to do so...
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Feeling pretty good since I banged yoga88 yesterday! Must be a rush of hormons that got released that made me feel pretty good today. Still like to have her around me but it is more of a question how I can get more time with her. The one message without text I received today from her was a cat paw with a ring and a hand of a woman with a ring. The picture said "relationship status". I have no clue what she meant lols...girls... Talked with Vision today quickly and he told me to actively try to have more good conversations with her asking the right question in the right depth. Also maybe by understanding her situation better and through providing more value I might get more time with her.
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@RedpoleQGreat advice! I met her today & had great sexy times with her. Actually probably one of the best sexy times I can remember with her. It seems that actively writing about yoga88 really helps me to realize my relationship with her. I was too long not leading and trapped in my own made purgatory. Anyway, I do not dislike her at all I just have zero expectations because that has worked well - does not mean I am totally emotionally detached at all :). I might get her Rich Dad, Poor Dad. Had a short talk about her work situation today and obviously she is thinking to be the manager of her friends yoga school where she also would be an instructor but she is not sure because she thinks it is too risky. Too much yoga practicing time and maybe also danger of losing her own money that she might needs to invest their. She seems also want to go rather the safer employee way. She is now unemployed and figuring out her job perspectives. Curious what she will do in the end...
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@Ditto Thanks man for your reply. Yeah, qualification could be an issue. Trailblazer let me know about that this might be the case. Definitely should do more qualifiers with her or girls in the future in general. I did not send a message until she asked if "Thursday" is good to meet. I let her know that this is great I am excited to spend time with her tomorrow [she read but did not reply]. Probably calling would help though to build general rapport I just hate phone calls...Anyway, nothing out of ordinary. More after I see her hopefully tomorrow! Still thinking about to buy her a book like 4hour work week or Rich Dad Poor Dad or even How to make friends and influence them. We will see!
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@Ditto thanks for your input! Yeah, that sounds like a solid plan for digging deeper and to get to understand her behaviour better! I got a reply from her this morning (did not follow up with any other message) asking "When would it be good (to see)?" I replied that either Wednesday or Thursday would be good (also since she said she noe could meet on weekdays due to her quitting her job). She replied "seems you are busy on the weekend!" I replied with "I just want to cuddle my Schokobaby as soon as possible *cute sticker*". She sent back a heart emoticon. I replied "I just would be happy to see meine suesse Kim Peach also during the week especially now since you have more free time :)."[message read but no reply]. Maybe calling her would be way easier to get her to reply directly. As said reliability isn't her strength at all. I am also sometimes questioning her excuses when she suddenly says she has to leave - she is just a weirdo...Still, this is purgatory and writing all is darn painful but it might solves some issues or will give me the morivation to ASAP look for a better alternative! Let us see how it goes tomorrow with the follow up - as said low expectations. I almost care 0% if I meet her or not because it is very infrequently anyway and I never know if she suddenly has to leave when we meet. #thegirlpurgatoryisreal
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Have not met her since Sunday last week were I only had short time with her because she had her period. These days she seems very sensitive or tired when she is on her period so she would usually avoid to meet also in the beginning we met and even remember that I banged her on her period before but these days she would always avoid any sex on her period. Usually the period is always on a Sunday somehow. Got a message in the morning her saying that she misses my cuddle. I responded and said that I want to cuddle her too [she read - no response]. Then later I send a message "When will I meet you to cuddle with you" [read but no response]. A weird but normal pattern with her to send messages then often reads mine but does not respond. Generally she is not very reliable and planning anything is basically impossible. My expectations on her are so low that I almost care zero. So far I decided to just put up with it because I am not motivated to get out there and to make efforts to get new girls. It feels like a waste of myself though not to get out and try to bang other girls. At least now I know what the girl purgatory feels like... Plan to keep status quo with her for now but really asking myself if ditching her would not be an option since she is worth a quarter of a girl at most... To be continued...
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I will use this journal to reflect actively daily about my relationship with Yoga88 - about my feelings, thoughts and goals. To be continued...
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HB Kunta FR: The Full Saga & The Grande Finale
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@RPQ I should have done the screening way earlier & more precise. As you correctly noticjed I thought the fact that she might had sex before would be good enough to push through simply with qualification & comfort - it did not work out... Also I forgot to write in the FR that she said on D5 when I home bounced her that she wants to see if we like each other - after I did my rather superficial sex talk. I guess thar even made me more believe it will work out... No LMR stories - because with her I felt really limited by using my Korean...so definitely important to upgrade here to develop as high skills as Vision~ It seems I have to dig way deeper in girls sexual past experiences in the future. And add Innoculator stories like I did with HBKun & HBBigTitsNurse. I also read the FR of HBToothFairy again - it brought back old memories - I forgot a bit about that because my main girl now had almost no issues... Anyway it is a learning experience & in the future more FR more for YOU~ Any more comments from YOU, RPQ?~ Sent from my IM-A900S using Tapatalk -
Data: 1993, Student, lives in Suwon with parents, wants to become a flight attendant Date Summary Start: Friday 2015/09/18 D1: Opened Gangnam Exit 10 D2: Meeting in Gangnam - incl. Home Bounce D3: Meeting in Suwon D4: Meeting in Gangnam [short facetime] D5: Meeting in Gangnam - incl. Home Bounce D6: Meeting in Suwon D7: Meeting in Gangnam - incl. Home Bounce End: Saturday 2015/11/22 D1: A solid night out with the Gangnam Bros. A few good opens, sets hooked. We ended up in front of Exit 10 where I saw this nicely dressed hot pants chica with nice juicy legs & body. Vision almost opened her but I was faster. I used the “favourite color” opener on her – even though she had earphones she hooked immediately and stopped and when I kept talking she put out her earphones too. We were chatting for a while at the same spot and I got to know she came from a Stewardess Hagwon. Then I decided to send her off to her Bus – the interaction was maybe 30 min really solid she seemed very keen and I time bridged her Mexican food for next Friday [because she had no time]. Kakao Chatting was really easy with her and I followed by sending her directly a picture of me & Bro`s in Visions Playboy apartment. All in all an epic night. I got her logistics down – school only on Tuesday & Wednesday – and Flight Attendant Hagwon on Friday evening + Part-time work in a café on Saturday & Sunday till 4 pm – Anyway I made the joke that we can meet easily. She also told me over text that she normally would run away when a foreigner approaches her but in my case she wanted to know what I am saying `cause I spoke in Korean & seemed cute. Yeah, the power of Korean & cuteness. D2: HB Kunta cancelled after I sent her a message if she is okay `cause we were supposed to meet that day but she send me no message or gave me notice – she also did not really read her messages. Anyway then I got a message and she cancelled because she had an upset stomach after her school festival but I rescheduled her again – she was very sorry and setting up the date was easy. We met and for Mexican food. I felt a bit startled and blushed a few times because I did not do a date fully in Korean for a while but she helped me a bit warming up too by asking a few things. The only important thing I got to know is that she had her last BF for 3.5 years and that he broke up with because he wanted to focus more on his studies [pretty lame indeed I thought]. I did not go deeper into details but I should have followed up with some sexy questions but because I was not used to it and also because I was afraid to screw it up I left that on the table…ONE of the biggest mistake for the whole Saga as it would turn out. Home Bounce After that I took her to the foreign food store and we bought beer cans to walk around in Gangnam. I was walking into direction of my apartment showing her a bit around. We went firstly to the Park near to my apartment and chatted a bit more and I tried to intensify kino. At some point we left and passed my apartment and I said I have to go to toilet (which was true). She said where and I pointed at the house entrance – I got my my keys and started walking giving her a sign and telling it is okay to come to. I put off my shoes and said she can in come quickly – she put off her shoes and came in – super easy or too easy? – Game On – at least I thought… I made her comfortable gave her a Swiss drink called “Rivella” my Swiss brought me in Summer and then went to toilet. I came back grabbed my notebook let her sit on my sofa. I asked her for her favourite music & movies and we watched some stuff on YOUTUBE and we got closer. Actually at one point we watched the Titanic song of Celine Dion. And I looked in her eyes and got close to her and was thinking to kiss. It seemed like these kinda situation but I had in mind that kissing leads normally to nothing in Korea so I did not go for it. I escalated quite slowly on her and it took me a while to warm up myself. I also showed her my pictures from Switzerland – I let her push the button. We made some jokes about Swiss food I cooked. I showed her the turtle shaped bread I made and she joked “I think you cannot eat that bread…” – she probable did not believe it was tasty. During the pictures I tried escalating more. I firstly put her hair away to see her earrings and told her I like them. So then I got closer to her face and at some point I just went for the kiss because she did not pull away. So I started but it was a very light and superficial kiss – she did not mind but it seemed more like a virginal kiss to me. Then I used starting phantom involvement a bit and escalated to her ears, nibbling a bit and then moving on to her neck. I was kind of surprised because there was no major reaction – she seemed a bit ticklish but that`s it. I had this case before with HBHollys [from Itaewon] were I did not write a FR after home bounce – anyway that girl just told me “it is is tickling and pulled away…” interesting detail that she was from Suwon as well… I also asked her if she has Tattoo’s but she said “NO” and she does not like it necessarily. Then I told her I had one and let her guess where. After she guessed I put off my shirt and showed her – bare body time…. Since I got no reaction I tried other regions like arms, hands or legs for kissing but also here no real reaction. She seemed more like just being there giving me no signs of being upset or turned on – again I thought – is she a virgin…Her Mom called her too after a while and I guess asked where she went… At some point I picked her up and put her on the bed. More kissing hands all over her body and also I put my hands into sweater and into slipper from and felt her soft butt. Always when I came closer to her boobs or vagina she would shut me down. I tried a few times but could not get past it the objections – I also could not get off any of her clothes. I was kinda puzzled here. I also did not D-Move because I was let`s call it too “conservative”… After that I really wished I would have addressed the sexy questions before! Anyway at some point it got late and she had to leave so we got up and I brought her hand in hand back to the bus station was sweet and send her off – remembered the bus number too. No harm done at all. Also in this case I set up the D3 with her in advance to the home bounce for some reason in Suwon to let her show me around – it matched the situation anyway and I wanted to get to see something outside of Seoul anyway. D3: Although I reminded her that I would come on that Saturday to Suwon she seemed kinda surprised and asked me why I would go there. I just told her that we planned this and she should just show me around. So I just got the bus she took last time and started the adventure. Unfortunately my parents called me and I missed the Bus stop where I should have gotten off. I knew where to go but because I was in the outer suburbs there were no taxis and busses on that Sunday drove occasionally. After back and forth she called me a taxi which brought to the place she came to see me [before I got totally crazy in this area]. I was hungry so I told her and we went for Mandu. I still told her that Suwon seems to be countryside because I told her that initially and of course she said no…but a good insider joke to tease her a bit. Then we went to that coin Karaoke Noraebang and we sang a couple of songs – I kissed her – and used a bit kino – felt her nice butt. She seemed okay with it. We then moved on to the Gwangyo – Lake and got a beer at the convenient store. Nice lights and atmosphere and I used it to build comfort & for qualification. I also thanked her that she called me a taxi and saved so she is my personal Angel. It got late and I enjoyed my time. Then we went back and she send me to the right bus stop and l was happy to be back in Gangnam back again. In this case I could just set up a tentative date without confirmation but she told me that she had this Flight Attendant event in Gangnam on Friday so she would be there. D4: This was a short face time with her on a Friday Night when I was out with the Bros again. I knew she was in the area because she told me that she had some Information event for Flight Attendants / Stewardessed. I told her to let me know when she finishes so we can quickly meet each other. I got her at the right time and I agreed to meet her at exit 7 in Gangnam. This was a good because I wanted to set up a confirmed date with her. It was not that easy because she said she is busy with job preparation and school again only a tentative date for Sunday [but it was rescheduled later `cause she had no time….]. The only thing I got from her was a free donut…after that she left `cause she was tired. I again thanked her for the sweet Donut which is as sweet as her and got the classic “Let me know when YOU arrive safely message.” D5: Initially to the meeting I happened to work at a COEX job fair to give advice & check English job interview abilities. I also used this to tell her “Next time we meet you can also let me your English interview skills and we can make a simulation – hihi YOU are so lucky that YOU met Mike Oppa. I also did a presentation there and was on the homepage with a picture so for a short time I felt famous xD– a good time to DHV myself! We happened to meet on a Thursday in Gangnam again. Initially for food but she was not hungry or did not want to eat desert so we ended up in Chloris Café. I initially wanted to bounce her for juice or yoghurt Ice Cream because I planned a home bounce again with her. In the coffee I gained back some comfort & kino & qualification. I told her about my work at COEX doing English interview check for Korean Students and asked her to have a try – she loved & tried and I gave her advice. Home Bounce Initially she wanted to watch a movie but I shut that down and said “You know I told you about the TV show I took part in let`s go and watch that…” Anyway it somehow worked and after giving her some more qualification on the way to my place we were at my place. We watched it and I tried again to escalate [same as on D2] but the same situation as last time. I always got shut down. In the end we were on my bed and I just could not progress further so I got up sat her next to me and asked her some of Visions classic sexy questions because I knew something was totally wrong here – It was one of my biggest mistakes in the HBKunta Saga so far that I did not address certain past relationship and sexual questions way before…I definitely got punished for that once more…. I mean how can she come to a guy’s place and not expect that anything like “sex” would happen and I was also confused that was not really allowed to touch her bare breasts or that I could not get off any of her clothes again. I also asked her “Are you on period?” Then she laughed and said “No” then I said “I am so happy because I am also not on my period” – stupid joke but yeah xD. So I asked her straight if she is a virgin and she was kinda confused so I asked if she had sex before and she said “Yes”. I also also asked her if she likes sex it but she said “not in particular / not really” and then I also asked her “Do you have orgasms during sex – do you know the feeling.” She just said no comment and asked me why these questions are important to me – I do not clearly remember what I said but I think something like “I wanted to find out if you had any bad experiences or if anything is wrong…” She said she just does not like sex – maybe still something happened but she did not wanted to tell me. Anyway her kisses were still shallow – no tongue – nothing and it felt somehow just weird because all the girls I at least kissed used tongue very quickly [maybe I was just lucky…]. At some point she told me – obviously to escape the situation – “It is boring here…I am hungry and let`s get food” – before that she said “Am I not allowed to have fun outside…”. So after this we quickly discussed and went for food. I was sweet again and send her off. The general “Kiss on the forehead” & “I will miss you” & “Let me know when you arrive safely at home treatment. I could not meet her for 2 weeks because I visited RPQ & the Crew in Taipei & got some dirty business there but I told her that I would bring her lots of delicious things from there. The date was also set up beforehand – but I do not remember what it exactly was. Anyway I would end up in Suwon once again in a rainy fall day. D6: Again my curiosity won and I went out to Suwon telling her that she should show me the Fortress and the famous Suwon Galbi meat. It was too rainy so no Fortress tour. Actually I was quite surprised how modernized Suwon got after I came here once more after roughly 4 years. Firstly we went for lunch. We were talking a bit about her job and what flight companies she wants to work for. She also told me that she wanted to stay in Seoul in the future because of her friends & parents – I asked her if she does not want to live abroad. She also asked me what kinda job I want to do in the future I told her: “I want to work as a consultant. You know in my first job I was working in an office but it was always repetitive and the same every day whereas in my second job I had more freedom `cause it was a new business unit and I wrote my Bachelor Thesis for this company too because they wanted a rough business plan. So what I found out through this experience is that I actually like problem oriented and critical thinking jobs where I do not have to do always the same and talk to people" It would be great to help Korean companies doing business abroad, especially in the German speaking area or the other way around. Luckily she paid [paying in general was on the classic I pay one thing you pay another basis – so I would pay meals in Gangnam and she dessert or coffee – in Suwon it was the other way around. She showed me the mall – and the big cinema telling me she often watches movies here. We listened to a band and ended up in Smoothie King again I gained back comfort she rested her head on my shoulder telling me that she is stressed these days because of job preparation and her final exam and dieting. Even mentioned that she could not sleep well these days and her Mom always wanted her to study so they would fight a lot these days. Therefore I was really sweet to her and let her that I really like spending my time with her and that I will give her a lot of energy – MAGIC Mike Oppa energy refill. Firstly her younger brother called her and then her Mom. Somehow I never had a date without any of them calling…As always she was kinda lying and telling I am with a friend story or studying. In my opinion this date was just good for comfort and maybe qualification. I liked her so I went out of my way but in regard to the repay it was definitely a bad decision – just got to see a bit developed Suwon side and that`s it. Also no kiss nothing…I just felt this does not feel like great. I also got to know that we cannot meet for 2 weeks because of her final exam and job preparations so I got a roughly confirmed / tentative date which would be fixed as usual with through Kakao Talk a few days before the actual meet. I let her know that we should celebrate with delicious food when finishes the interview & exam. D7 – The Finale Grande & so the Saga ends: Before the actual D7 I observed kind of a chatting pattern change with her. Her messages were less engaged, shorter and sometimes breaks in between got longer. It did not hurt me though just the texting got a bit less smooth – I also know that her Kakao Talk is always full of messages because I saw her screen a couple of times. The Grande Finale I was already kind of tensed the day before because I was not really sure how to progress further. So the possibility was the reframing strategy of Vision & RPQ – telling her that being close to her body is needed for me to develop a really deep and meaningful relationship and that she is holding me to so so. I was thinking once more about a way to home bounce her because I knew I would run out of opportunities in the future so I figured out that I still had these pineapple cakes from Taipei I wanted to give to her – and they had expiry date too [so I could not give them to her later…]. Anyway instead of bringing them to the meet I decided to leave them at home and use them as a reason to get her to my place giving her a false time constraint. We went for late lunch at this new place I discovered called Ugly Stove– for Pasta, Pilaf, Steak, and Brunch. It was once more gaining back comfort because 2 weeks is still a long time but after a warm up it went well. After Lunch we were walking a bit and I seemed a bit puzzled how to really proceed and so we were walking a bit and then ended up in a café she wanted to go – I was okay with it because I had to do some sexualization and qualification again anyway – and the view was nice – also on her body. She paid for the coffee and we sat on the terrace where I firstly saw her nice pink nails and asked her “Did YOU do that for Mike Oppa?” She said “No, not for you but for my interview….!” Then I replied….”I am very disappointed” and made a sad face – then she said “okayokay I did it for YOU!” And I said “Okay I believe YOU!” I also told her about the pineapple cakes here and that they had an expiry date…so I have to give them to her quickly. I also asked her if she would wear sexy Lingerie for Oppa today but she just said “No…”. It got colder and we moved inside. I chose a bench so I could sit easily next to her and put my arm around her and she rests her head on me. Then at some point I started that I really want to kiss her here but I cannot…She also said we cannot because too many people here. Then I went further and said I also want to kiss your booty and breast…she just laughed and said “You can`t – you are not allowed” (Korean: 안돼). And I told her then that I really want to be close to her but I cannot because she always does not let me really close to her. Her reaction was more or less neutral but she seemed to understand. Then she went to the toilet and when she came I told her that her booty looked really sexy when she walked there. She just said “I am a sexy girl…”. These phases changed in between jokes and stuff. Surprisingly….her Mom called once more and she seemed kinda fighting with her and told her she is in Gangnam for “Studying” and not for playing [i guess her Mom called her out…]. I was just kinda smiling – I also saw that she sent a message to a friend saying “I am in the library…!”. Her Mom told her obviously that they will make Kimchi (Yeah…it is Kimchi season again) – she was not excited and somehow said to me if we should try to make cake or bread. I said yes but I told her that I never bought ingredients in Korea. I also let her that I had an oven at home when she asked where we should bake. I set up the date for next Saturday baking then at my place… Home Bounce So we left and it was show time – so I led her in the direction on my home. We firstly walked through restaurant area on the Shinonhyeon side of Take Urban – because she wanted to see the restaurant. Then she used a distractor and told me she wants to drink beer and I just told okay let`s do it later and get the pineapple cakes because they will expire otherwise. So we walked to my place – she walked up but when I went in she would not come in directly so I distracted her and her water and said let us just take a break here for 10 min [false time constraint]. She came in but seemed not fully comfortable so I showed her my oven and some Korean fairy tale books I got yesterday. Then I got closer to her and pulled her to me. Kissing seemed okay but she seemed a bit reserved…I mean it was 1 month prior that I kissed her actually so… There were some moments of silent awkwardness – where I just made a “hmmm” sound and she looked at me doing the same. I baby stepped to my bed taking small steps and starting to dance “Walser” with her moving to my and humming a famous classic song. Then at some point I could sit on the bed and I fell backwards with her in my arms and we started kissing. The downside was that she still had her jacket and handbag on…Somehow I should have taken care of the jacket & handbag before. I asked her if she feels safe and comfortable – and she said “yeah just comfortable…” Then I also asked her if she likes “Oppa” but she did not give a verbal response. Again the same stuff as the other 2 times – always shut down – although I had a feeling I could go further in her slipper to feel her booty but she seemed not that comfortable. Generally the whole being close together seemed weird for her. And I told her that I want to be really close to her but I cannot because she does not let me so I cannot give her my full emotion – so I wanted to talk with her about that issue. And she said “I do not like skinship” [sex, being naked together] and I asked WHY? And she responded “I just do not like it….” – total red flags here… I asked her if she does not want that I make her feel good and happy – but also no real response. I tried to escalate a bit further and was ready for the final MOVE – THE D-MOVE! I put her hand on my pants in my D-Area..this time she would not pull back that early. So I got my belt off and she asked me why…”I just said that my belly feels too tight and that I have to get rid of it…then she was already in kinda getting of the bed then pulled my trousers off. I think I should have just put my D through the Zipper…anyway I got to know that I can do that later from Tattoo xD. …when she saw this she just said “I want to go home packed her stuff quickly and stormed out…I felt like in one of these movies. I told her to wait but she was already out of the house. I ran behind her trying to talk and ask her if she is okay – I did not try to hurt her. She was kinda angry & upset I guess. All in all she seemed like a little wounded child but not like a women. So I again addressed my views on a relationship and that “Skinship” is part of it. She then told me…”For me it is not…I just do not like it and only your view seems important to YOU!” “I do not want to talk anymore…” I then also told her what she did with her last BF and she said just “Having fun, going out…” and then she said something in Korean and it was way too fast and I could not understand the vocabulary – also she did not repeat it anymore even though I asked her. So in the end most of the time I was walking next to her until the bus station – the bus was already there she rushed – did not look at me or say anything. I just told her to let me know when she arrives at home at least as a last thing… I never got a message so I send her a “Did YOU arrive safely at home” *Question Mark Sticker… So far no response and she did not even read the message… I guess that`s how things are end here and so the HBKunta Saga ends… I wish her good luck for the future – and maybe we meet again who knows. Last but not least I saw that I actually missed a call of my main girl 1.5 hours before [she has a talent to call me in bad situations] and also she send me a message exactly when I dropped of HBKunta that she went to the exact same restaurant I went with HBKunta today just a few hours ago – close call and my heart was bumping…It then reminded me how much I actually like my main girl now – she seems just so normal & perfect in many ways. This event with HBKunta made me realize how hard it might be to find a good replacement for my main girl. Last words & conclusion I do not feel particularly great about how it ended, actually I feel terrible but it seemed necessary to let her know the reality and what business is. She seemed more in her bubbly dream world of becoming a flight attendant instead of accepting the real world. Therefore I am happy to focus my time on new girls in the future and to make them happy. I also wrote this FR to reflect this whole happening & to help Bros with similar incidents. It was really painful to write this report but I feel a lot better afterwards and hope for good advice. Also it was a brutal mistake that my learned skills would be enough to handle this well – I was wrong & I got punished but I will hopefully learn a lot and implement it into my game. In the end I regret that I did not write a FR earlier and that I did not ask key questions early on which could have eliminated her way earlier. I will see it as a learning experience to improve myself and my skills. Let us see what the future will bring! All over evaluation: 5 Things I did well Comfort building Qualification Setting up new dates Being fun Handling a date in Korean 5 Things I need to improve Filtering process / critical questions Early on Sexualization Korean language skills Date planning process Better framing control
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The Golden Fox is back in action! I like the "Sexualization"- Part where you start talking about her vagina in a very playful way. I am curious if this would work with Korean girls too [probably would blow out a few easier but also fun to try!]. Good that you described her LMR in a next post - because otherwise it seemed very flawless. In the end this just shows that putting your self out there and just keep talking to girl in combo with the right people will make miracles happen. Anyway good stuff for just leading her and assuming that it will happen. Good to see you make things happen & restarted again - go for it and make more girls happy. Looking forward to read more in the future .
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HB BigTitsNurse Field Report Main Data: 1994, nursing in Gangnam, lives with parents in Bucheon, curfew at 10pm Opening D1: I was on the way home in the metro when this smaller girl with beautiful big titties (they were really moving up and down when she walked in…) and orange handbag caught my attention. I gave her an obvious she looked quickly back and then stood next to me in the metro. I still do not like opening in the metro but in this case I had to do it, so after initial thinking I approached her – And my legs were shaking a bit because of excitement and nervousity (which I guess is a good thing). Initially opened in KOREAN Me: (Waving and smiling at her) She: Smiled and seemed okay Me: (Tapped on her shoulder twice and started talking) “Is orange your favorite colour?”, pointing at her handbag. She: (Put her earphones out) and responded “No”! Me: Oh so what is your favourite color then…red? She: No it is purple! Me: So why do not wear anything purple then today? She: Because it is hard to match this colour with anything. Me: How about purple Lipstick then? She: (Laughed) Me: Have you been to other countries then? She: US & Philippines Me: Oh do you speak English well then? She: Just a bit… Me: Okay let me check then can you understand “Do you liked apples?” She: (Laughed and nodded) and then saying “Do not you think this question is sarcastic?” Me: “Why do you think so?” She: “Because I went to Philippines and US….” Me: Of course I know they speak English there…(laughed) “What is your work then…hm Kindergarden teacher or a student like me?” She: I am a nurse / doing nursing major Me: Wow! My Mom is also a nurse! She: (Laughed) “Can I believe you?” Me: after one second “You have to” (Laughed) She: Why did you asked me about my favourite colour and talk to me Me: Because when I saw entering the metro I thought YOU are very pretty and I wanted to find out if you are cool person so I wanted to talk to you She: (laughed) [shortened here] Then she asked me when do I have to go off and I said Gangnam and asked her back and found out that she will leave at Sindorim. So I knew I would have at maximum 3 more minutes. She seemed quite keen and giving me lots of compliance. I asked her if she likes coffee or cake because I know a really good place. She asked “where” and I said in Gangnam (I told her that I live here). Then I got her Kakao Talk through her Phone Number – taking her phone and calling me. Then I kinda tried to set up a date for Wednesday but time was up and she said she will check and lets do Kakao Chat – She said joking “said I am leaving…” my response making a crying gesture and “I will miss YOU!”. D1 – Kakao Talk Chatting (in Korean): I sent her the first message roughly 25 min later when I arrived in Gangnam – just the classic “There she is!” she responded quite quickly and told me she has private English tutoring soon so she will reply later. Through chatting I DHVed myself a lot by using Korean & my knowledge about Korean Culture, customs & life. She really liked it and the interaction was really good and she asked me a lot of things whereas I also tried to find out more about her. Before going to bed I pushed for the meet and offered either Tuesday or Wednesday for delicious dinner or cake. She agreed quite quickly for Tuesday evening because she had tutoring again on Wednesday she told me. She told me over chat that she was really surprised to meet me in the metro today and that it seemed like a coincidence fate. So I told her that I felt the same. All in all I tried to set the frame that she is special to me and that I am looking for the right girl. Me: “I felt a very good connection / atmosphere between the two of us so I was also very surprised. Like destiny!” *shy face sticker* She: That is a lie. Because it was very natural it seems you did not do that for the first time… Me: I just felt something special when I saw YOU so I wanted to find out if YOU are a cool & fun person – YOU passed the test! *thumbs up sticker* She: It is a good feeling right? Hihihi – thanks for saying these good things about me I was really happy while I was talking with YOU Oppa. Me: This is what I meant. I felt really happy too. It is really hard for me to find the girl I like so I just had this intuition with YOU…YOU know I am a man who knows what he wants! …..[then topic changed] Preparing D2 – Chatting: Morning following up with “I wish YOU a sweet Swiss chocolate day Sunshine! And Mike Oppa is already really excited to see YOU again this evening!” She seemed really excited and told me even that her heart is really bumping while she is doing her assignment now and waiting for us to meet. I was really excited as well to meet her again because of her body and personality reasons. It was probably a typical penis twitch sign for true love potential lols. This really does not happen that often but I am happy it did. D2 Meeting: We were supposed to meet at 6:30 pm at Gangnam Station but we happened to be in the same metro and met when we got off. She gave a Korean style hug and seemed really happy. She was wearing a tight burgundy sweater where I could see her big titties again & combined it with stockings and a miniskirt and high heel shoes – a very sexy and hot combo. I told her to turn herself around to show me her nice outfit. Then I told her that I really style today and she was happy. I asked her if she likes Mexican (because the initial plan was kept flexible) and she said that she really loves it so I said lets go to that really delicious place I know. I kinoed her early on putting my hand on her back – she gave kino back too by leading me through people – she reminded me though about HB Tooth Fairy who also was actually kino-ing me quite early when we met on D2 as well. On the way we also met Romeo, The Animal and Vision with his Insta date chica. Passed by and said Hi. At this point I asked her about in a joking way if she wants to drink Gong juChestnut Makkeoli with me today and she said no she does not want to look like a ajumma or ajeossi and I told her nono that is okay. And I told her my story of me coming the first time to Korea and going to a Korean style pension where an old man was our host and he brought us to this water source and gave us Kimchi & Tofu & Makkeoli and that this tradition of “anju – korean food enjoyed with alcohol” is very interesting. She laughed and asked me how I know all this stuff…. On the way she asked me why I live in Gangnam so far from my University. And I said “It is a secret” and she just with a smile “okay I understand hihi…” giving me mischievous look. And then I said laughing “What do you understand” and she “Yeah there are a lot of clubs & bars her etc.” “And I said that is one reason I am here because it is a really nice area to live in – YOU know I used to live in Hongdae and Gangnam!” and she said “….It is okay you don`t have to explain but yeah I have to understand your living situation, right?” -> So I think here I should think about a goof response “WHY GANGNAM – because most girls always think it is because of the girls…” We happened to pass by Skin Food where they had some event to win some cosmetic samples so I let her draw a ball from the box and we went in to pick it up and I asked her about her favorite cosmetic brand – I think it was MAC…Anyway this was just filling activity to create more experiences between me & her…she might one day uses the sample she got and thinks about me. Dinner: Then we went to Dos Tacos and we said on the bar – so we were next to each other for better kino and easier talking. Placing her there was no problem. Then I gave my recommendations and said things are really fresh and tasty here. We ordered & food came. We talked about different topics such as: My Swiss friends & Swiss chocolate they brought me to Korea short story & seeding chocolate at my house Short superficial relationship talk about her last relationship & BF LMR Innoculator Story Her asking me why I came to Korea –> DHV HERO STORY Talking about my Sport -> DHV of me competing in Switzerland as Strongman & in Powerlifting In this phase I wanted to find out more about her and her thoughts and also wanted to make her more comfortable & create attraction & qualification. I told her that she seems quite popular among Korean guys but she said that is not true. They want taller and skinnier girls. Korean guys always tell that she has a thicker body and big boobs (she did not say boobs and kinda got shy about it…). She said she knows that she is a thicker body and thinks she is a pig (way to say in Korea a girl is not skinny but thicker – saying they are fat even though they look super hot for me…). I qualified her and told her that I actually do not like skinny girls because I am afraid that they break (saying it and making a dramatic break-like hand gesture). She laughed again She also asked me if I had a relationship with a Korean girl before – like Campus Couple– I said yes but my invented story is still kind of sloppy so I came up with 2 stories: [Have to work on that]. 1) “In the first semester I had a girlfriend in my department but she graduated and went to Hong Kong for her job so we broke up – but it is not a big deal and I really hope she is happy there….” 2) “Also I broke up with my last GF during summer vacation because I was busy with meeting friends and she also was doing internship and in the end she just wanted to focus more on studying and her career so….” So I asked her how many boyfriends and found out she had 3 boyfriends and broke up with the last one 5 months ago. She broke up with him because he never came to her area & also did not really appreciate the things she did for him (changing her style, make up, behavior). She also told me that he really disliked the clothes she was wearing and her make-up style. So I told her that Korean guys seem always to look for pure, innocent virgin type girls which is really different from Western men perspective. Then I came up with the Inoculator story: “I have a Korean friend and he hooked up with a white girl from a club. He told me the story and said “You know that white bitch had sex the first time we met, what a slut…” I was really surprised when he told me that and asked him “Why do you think she is a slut?” And he said “Because we had sex in the same night…..” And so I told him that I see things in a complete different way “You know if this would happen to me I think it is because the connection between me and the girls is really good and that we liked each other a lot – and because we liked each other a lot we happened to have sex. So in my opinion sex on the first date does not really matter. She was impressed that I addressed this issue that frankly and blunt. She also told me that she normally does tutoring every day but she cancelled today because she really wanted to meet me. Because she thought I am special. I was really surprised by that fact thanked her and made a shy face hand gesture. She then said I am really cute. I also added my HERO STORY "Why I came to Korea" - which made her really impressed [story too long to post here though). No doubt that the is always good for DHVing and for comfort. At some point I asked her what kind of man she likes. And said I said she does not seem to like skinny guys because she might be stronger than them. She laughed and said “YES – I really do not like skinny guys…” Also in terms of personality she mentioned having a nice smile, humor, being considerate and a warm hearted person. She added that when she met me in the metro and after she was talking to me for a while that I seem to be not a bad person and she had a lot of fun talking to me. She asked me back and I said that as I mentioned before I do not like skinny girls and that she has a really nice body / is perfect. Then I also told that I like active persons who like to walk or being in the nature – that does not mean she has to lift heavy weights like me but still kinda sporty. So I said that I think it is really cool she likes sports and did Kendo before. Also humour and smiling were one point where I mentioned that from the beginning I met her she had really nice smile and I could joke with her around so I really liked that. That is why I thought she is a very open-minded person too because she likes to try different foods and met me. Then I also let her know that I do not like girls who always diet and almost never eat anything `cause then I could not enjoy my food because it would ruin the experience. I summed up that there are maybe other things such things as kindness and warm hearted can also be important but there is never the perfect personality mix so it is more over time important to balance. Besides I told her that I really liked a lot about her personality (giving her again the examples again) and that after the first meeting she passed the test. Then she also asked me about my sport activities and I told her that I used to do Strongman & Powerlifting in Switzerland. She r me what weights I lifted and I told her. She was impressed and gave me a thumbs up. Then I showed her my pictures on the phone. Then she was looking at my arms and said “That why your triceps is so big…”, making a very surprised face. Then I also told her that my legs are quite muscular too – she looked at them and was really surprised taking a look at her legs. I then said she also looks like a strong girl, took her arm and squeezed it. Then I also looked at her legs and took one finger to tip her leg but she was kinda shy about it. She also asked me if she can touch my arm and legs and seemed to be even more amazed. She was really surprised that I do this kinda sport and why it would be my hobby to lift such heavy things so I told her the story. Story: “When I was 17 years all my friends did sports such as swimming, badminton or hockey but I never really did sports besides some occasional jogging. At one point I decided that I wanted to become physically and also mentally stronger so I started to lift weights. It started very slowly in the basement of my parents’ house but lifting weights was too loud so they sent me to the gym where it started to become more and more a serious hobby. After 4 years I met another guy doing Crossfit and Powerlifting as well and he had a gym so I started to work out with and to compete in competitions. It was a very intense time but I miss it a lot and it will always be part part of my life”. Last point I did not handle that well was this: “Did your parents know that YOU had a relationship with Korean girl – Did you tell your parents?” I was struggling…I told her that they knew about my last Girlfriend but of course never met her in person. Maybe I should have said something like: “My parents know a lot about my life and of course I was always happy to tell them about my girlfriend and how good she is to me. And they said that they would be very happy to meet her in person and get to know her the next time they come to Korea. They always told that they are very happy for me – so I think if you come with me to Switzerland or my parents come here they will be very happy to meet you!” -> Anyway room for improvement I also asked her how open-minded her parents are if she is dating a foreigner. And she said her Dad seems to be more open-minded than her Mom. In the end she said it would be her decision. She asked me back and I told her that my parents do not really care and very open-minded. Especially since my Dad works in a international company and he got to know many interracial couples. She said I am so full now. And then I just responded that it is okay because of her nursing major her brain needs a lot of energy so she has to feed her brain with delicious things. After Dinner: We left and I asked her if she likes coffee or juice and she said coffee will be okay so I walked in direction of Shinonhyeon to Paiks coffee there so we could get a take out coffee and walk around in direction of my apartment. Then on the way she said something really interesting: “Oh right you have so many girls, you already planned this and know all the places we go to…” I was slightly confused by her comment and said “I live in that area so of course I know places…but if I planned it what would I do If you do not like coffee”, and laughed. She said “It is okay I am just kidding and joking with you” [she really likes sarcasm or making these kinda jokes…]. Anyway I think I should have handled it way better like “Good for YOU” and then stacked on “Yeah I should be a professional food & Bar guide in Gangnam and make money!” At Take Urban then I just grabbed her arm and put it on my arm. Later on we changed to walking hand in hand. So a certain compliance of KINO was given. And she also said she really thinks she is a sexy girl but blushed a bit. So I told her not to be shy and she should say it with more confidence – just showing her the way how to put confidence in it. Anyway even though I talked with Vision about that I forgot to ask for the time constraint in the beginning (WHAT A ROOKIE MISTAKE…). Anyway she told me on the way and said she has to leave here at latest 9 pm (we met at 6.10pm). And I said: Me: “Do you have a curfew?– acting surprised?” She: “YES, even though I am 21 and would be an adult in the US my parents still treat me like a Baby…so I always spend my time at home working for school and tutoring and could never enjoy clubbing or going out for drinking…” Me: “Oh…that is too bad TT so YOU always have to be at home at 10pm?” She: “Yes normally at 10pm” With this information I was rather handicapped but I still decided to take her for a short home bounce so she knows at least where I live and that she gets to know the area (just to prepare her for real sexy times…). I also i that she lived in Bucheon with her parents so logistics were rather but because I initially thought she lives in Sindorim.. I set up the D3 for with her mentioning the cake I seeded earlier before and she was happy. It was not easy though to find a date. But I ended up to get another date next Tuesday (1 week later). She said she could meet on Saturday or Sunday too but she has to many assignment this week so she can`t and added “I know you want to meet me every day…!” whereas I responded “No, even every second!” and she laughed while I was getting her closer to me. Home Bounce attempt: The time constraint was pretty strong but I still wanted to experiment if I could get the compliance. The seeding seemed okay but even with that time would run out too quickly…Anyway it was quite easy to walk her there while showing her around and talking about things here. When she asked where we are going I said “To the point with the best view in Gangnam!” She seemed okay and then we walked there (The highest point is where my apartment). So in front we enjoyed the view on Kyobo Tower. I told her since she has to leave soon I will just drop off my bag `cause it is heavy (she checked the weight of the bag too). I told her it is okay to come in quickly. She just said “I will wait outside it is okay…!” “Then I told her “It is okay okay, do not worry…” She would not move so I told her to wait outside until I dropped of my bag - `cause I still want to make sure will come home safely and bring her to the station. So I came out and I brought her hand in hand to the station. On the way I told her that I had a lot of fun and happy times with her and that I will miss her. We hugged each other closely. Then I told her “Go home safely and let me know as soon as you arrive safely!” Send her off. Then text message and told her again “Mike Oppa arrived safely at home – feeling really happy – great & happy time – because of YOU Sweety. Are you safe? Anyway let me know when YOU arrive safely at home!” She responded then and after a couple of messages we said Good Night. After D2 Morning chatting: Send her the typical morning message: Me: “Honey Morning Sweety Pie! Did YOU sleep well? It rains today so do not forget to bring your umbrella – you brought one, right? [sounds a lot more natural in Korean…]. She: “I did not TT” -> I then send her a picture of different Disney character umbrellas and that she should choose one… Then I wished her a good lunch and told her about my University Party with my department and Indian food– then I got busy at 2pm – to 6pm – Then send pictures of the event and a message. NO RESPONSE. Then I wished her a good night – NO RESPONSE. Anyway we will see if there will be an update or if another PU Adventure ends early on with no happy times for her. I really enjoyed being with her but we all know that these girls are most of the time the hardest to get…they suddenly vanish or any other crazy stuff – ANYWAY welcome to KOREA`s Dating world xD. 5 Things I did well Kino compliance DHV through stories Being fun & energetic Comfort & finding out about her Qualifying – Why I like her 5 Things I need to improve Early on sexualizing Innoculator stories Home bounce decision planning Future projection Better seeding
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Boot Camp report day 1 in Hongdae - Start 9pm, 2014/09/12 : D1: Preparation for the first night out The story started in Hongdae on Friday night. Unfortunately neither my BC partner nor I was on time because I was stuck in an opening event of my University and my BC partner was stuck at his work place as well. Nevertheless RedpoleQ and I started off at the metro station number 9 in Hongdae. I did not really know what will happen or what I can expect from this whole course and this fact made me quite nervous in the beginning. RedpoleQ started with a bit of fluff talk to make the situation comfortable from the beginning We went to a 닭갈비 chain called 유가네 for dinner where RedpoleQ tried to find out what kind of type of girl I like including discussing the responses of the preparation form. The questions were a bit trickier than I thought and RedpoleQ always managed to bother me with new arguments which I was hard for me to cope with. This is the first time I realized that I never thought about a lot of important things such as “What do I expect from a girl” or “How should my life be in the future”. Therefore I struggled a lot at this part. Then we were also walking through this big street with all this cloth shops and fortuneteller. As always Redpole Q was gazing around to spot hot chicks suddenly telling me, “I am sorry to tell you but you are just average. You are a big dude but none of the girls is really gazing you.” Honestly, I did not really know how I should feel after this comment – Was this a trial to break my ego or even to check my reaction? I put up with it and just kept going. I mean for a certain reason I decided to take this Boot Camp. What else would motivate me if chicks would already voluntarily and automatically jump on my dick? After walking a bit around in Hongdae and scouting the area we went to a coffee where we met Vision and Trailblazer which would help us afterwards when we hit the Streets of Hongdae. Finally, also my BC partner arrived and after a short meet and greet we finished off the preparation questions and RedpoleQ started his lecture about Opening, Attraction and BT-Spikes, Kino etc.. At this part I already felt quite nervous `cause I did not really know what would follow. Day 1: Nightgame in Hongdae Finally the moment came and we were ready to go infield. Still nervous and a bit stifled I declared to myself that I am ready to tackle with whatever would come up. Close to Club Mama we started our first approach. Anxious and totally overwhelmed not knowing what to do me and my Bootcamp partner stood there. RedpoleQ said you are supposed to suck at this so do not be surprised if you crash and burn. Then “BANG” RedpoleQ pointed his finger on some girls standing around close to a window of a shop. He said “Ask them what is your favorite color.” Almost dying of excitement I went there and asked but then actually did not know how to continue the interaction. It ended in total awkwardness and the girls were even more confused. Luckily, Vision helped and handled the 2 set with ease himself with an amazing speed. I did not really know what happened but I could see that experience pays well off if you do pick up on a higher level. Disillusioned I left the set and RedpoleQ congratulated me for approaching my first set in the BC repeating again that we are supposed to suck at doing this `cause we lack of infield experience. We started to approach some walking sets in direction of Cocoon and of course I and my BC partner really fucking sucked and that is why went on practicing. We went on gaming in front of the long street of Cocoon. Again Redpole Q pointed his finger to a set and set approach and I was just following his advice and approached. The set was kind of okay until one of this annoying cockblocker guys came and tried to push me out. The girl even grabbed arm but I got so confused by the situation that I gave up like a little puppy. Redpole Q was kinda angry `cause I left the set that easily. He said “What were you doing…the guy who came in was a NOBODY….buddy you are way too nice!” and he also said “What happened in this set which was good?” I said “She grabbed my arm..” Redpole Q said “Yes, that`s it so how much more compliance do you want…you should not care about these cockblocking guys..”. Another set was sitting on the said next to the “Buddha club”. My BC partner approached firstly and brought me into the game. The girls were quite confused and not too eager to talk but still stayed. We left then `cause there was nothing to get. We approached a couple of other sets which were terrible or okay. There was one set I remember when we teamed up in front of the convenient store. Two pretty Korean girls just standing there. GoldenFox approached brought me in. I kept the one quite busy. GoldenFox got the number but he kinda forgot that I also wanted to get the number close of the other one `cause during talking with her I got attracted. Anyway my BC partner blew me out to early and the set moved on. I was a bit annoyed but I think it happens when you are not used to communicate in a team. We approached a couple of more sets on the way to NB2 with the help of Vision and Trailblazer. It was not easy and especially after a while I got tired of approaching girls on the street. Redpole Q always let me run around like some crazy dude who was really looking for serious pussy. Me and my BC partner kept hustling. And I also learnt that I should not ask for the girls name before the number close `cause it has no influence on the full interaction in the beginning. I remember one set when Redpole Q opened one set and I played only obstacle game to keep her friend away from the girl Redpole Q number closed in the end. I did a good job. Later on another set close to Club Mama where I stopped a girl on the Street. After approaching so many girls before I was in good mood or “state” and nothing could stop me. I used really hard kino and even though she tried firstly to escape I tried her to make talk to me. I got the number close in the end walking away like a winner. I never thought this would work or even that I could do this but I just did it. This was one of my favorite sets in the whole night showing my development from a lame douchebag to a serious M*****. Me and my BC partner got a lot better at the end of the night - crushing it like 2 crazy psychos hustling to get some serious ass. Quite unbelievable when I look back at the startpoint of the night! The last set was “a lazy set” where one girl just ate Pizza. And firstly my BC opened, and then Redpole Q later and then also I asked her for a piece of Pizza. She got suddenly hooked and the girls friends started chasing my BC partner. Even though she had a Korean guy from club she started kinoing my BC partner and even kissing him. The Korean guy got really upset as I could see on his face – even claimed he was her BF…but no way. Me and my BC partner both number closed (I number closed her firend) and went on to the debrief to finish the first night full of adventures and new things I learnt about girls and their behavior. In this night we were really badass and most guys would never this level I thought `cause we might talked to more girls than some men would do in their whole life. I came back at around 7am ready to hit the bed and knowing that the next challenge was waiting for me. D2: Infield Shinnonhyeon Station Coffee and Street game It was around 3 pm and I arrived in Gangnam Shinnonhyeon station where Redpole Q and Vision were waiting. We started the day off at a Mexican place to cover the second part of the Theory. Unfortunately I was told that my BC partner quit today `cause of his current relationship with his GF. This made me a bit upset but I still had to keep on rollin` and so we did. We ate some mexican food and after covering the theory we were hitting the hot streets of Gangnam where an endless stream of smoking hot girls seems to exist. Then we just hit the streets and I was sent around by Redpole Q. At first it was not really easy to pick up walking sets `cause they were moving sometimes quite fast and it was hard to follow them within the mass of people. After screwing up some sets where I did not be in the girls vision (most of the time the girls would be scared). I remember one set I did not really want to approach but again Redpole Q pointed his powerful finger and I had to run. Surprisingly the girl totally hooked – after I asked her if black was her favourite color which was totally true. So we were talking quite for a long time on the street which wa actually a bit too long but unfortunately I missed the message from RedpoleQ to bounce her to the coffee which was just a 1 minute walk away. I`d say it was one of the best sets I did on that day. Unfortunately even after texting I could not bounce her back to the coffee. It was a big success anyway and I never thought that this street pick up stuff would work. Another of my favorite sets was in front of the library where I stopped this hot girl in the black dress. She was walking quite fast but I could stop her somehow and she started pretending not to understand English which was just a trial to get rid of me easily. Even though she tried hard to avoid me in the beginning she got a bit confused between stumbling around and talking to me- It seemed to be the kind of “I should not talk to this guy..but somehow I am still doing it”-situation. Also saying that she has a boyfriend did not really change the situation. At some point she got a phone and I just felt proud and tired of my amazing and said good bye to her on short notice…And there went off to meet with her friends another 6 girls she. I should have followed her `cause there could have been even hotter girls but I unfortunately I will never find out… Of course there were a lot of other sets where I learnt to stop the girl or to approach them when being in their vision otherwise they freak out or are generally less likely to talk to you afterwards. After running around on the streets I felt already tired from last night in Hongdae. I was happy that I could take a break and get some food to refresh myself for nightgame. I decided with RedoleQ to go to Itaewon with the option to take a ride back to Gangnam (Syndrome or Octagon). We decided to meet at Shinonhyeon Station again. I was still full of energy and went just on playing streetgame. I wanted really eat Pasta so I found one girl which brought me there but she had an appointment so I could not have directly dinner with her – too bad but night game in Itaewon was waiting for me! D2: Infield Itaewon and Gangnam Nightgame I met RedpoleQ at Itaewon and well rolled of together from Shinonhyeon Station. We were both a bit tired and I also felt that I am reaching my limits but I still had to go on. We went to Holly`s Coffee in Itaewon where we were covering the third part of the Theory about “Sexualization”. Surprisingly also my BC partner showed up and I was quite happy about that `cause It was a lot more fun with him than without him. Also Trailblazer and Vision were supporting us for this night again. This brought a bit additional action and helped that we stayed motivated during the whole night. The first sets on the street were a bit rough and me and my BC partner burned and crashed just to keep up doing it. We wanted to go into Club B2 and failed so we just went on gaming on the street. We found a few good sets which were hooking on the street but because some sets were too big (4-5 Set). It was super hard not having them all walk away suddenly. I still remember one set quite clearly. We were walking at the main street of Itaewon then my BC partner bumped into a 2 Set which was on the way back home. We just got them and my BC partner brought me in. It was working pretty well and I played the marriage routine on her who always brings a lot fun and dynamic into the game. They hooked pretty well and there was a lot of good kino during the interaction. My friend did the number close and I was not ready so he had to prolong the whole interaction `cause I also wanted to number close her because I suddenly liked her. The number close was not that smooth but it worked somehow. It was not that smooth because the other friend already pressed to leave the interaction. Anyway I think this is part of the learning process. I slowly started to feel like a God `cause I was suddenly able to approach all these girls I would have never approached. And it got even better when we went to Glam. The Bar packed with people and hot chicks which were a bit older though. We came in and “Bang” I saw that chick, she got approached by some other K-Guy before but as fast as lightning I approached after the other guy got eliminated. Actually she did not want to stay in the set I took her arm walked with her and plowed a bit further until I stopped her. Unfortunately she had a friend which had birthday and was truly unhappy that I got her friend. Luckily I had my BC partner I sent into to the set to distract the friend. It worked pretty well and I used super strong KINO on her. The chemistry was right and it went down super smoothly until she got a phone call from someone and we also had to leave suddenly. So the set got suddenly interrupted but I knew that we had to go further and there were a lot more girls to approach in this night to get further practice and to work on losing approach anxiety. We did a couple of other sets on the streets and then left to Club Syndrome in Gangnam. We came to Syndrome and I felt like crap `cause I was tired and the environment was really rough. The loud music and the speed in the club was just so overwhelming that it was really hard to open sets for me under these circumstances. Also Redpole Q told me that Syndrome is kind of rough. He also told me that I should not be too nice and gives persons too much space `cause I am a big guy. Another thing was that I should give K-Guys not really attention instead I should focus on the girls. Syndrom at this night was pretty much a slaughter `cause I was really exhausted and the loud environment made it super hard to speak to the girls. I could already feel that this BC really cost me a lot of energy. The other sets were pretty much in vain and really tiring. In the end I found a good set before we went home in the locker room. I had a nice conversation and number closed. It was definitely time to go home. We decided to eat and to do the debriefing at the same time. The place was close to the the club “the Cage” and so many people dropped in. RedpoleQ even opened a set for me and then he kept the friend busy. I was pretty tired at this but felt really good that I number closed that girl including nice KINO. Her skin was really soft so I really got a boner when I touched her. Playing this kind of lazy game was really awesome. After the first day I already felt that my taste of girl had slightly changed. The night was really amazing `cause I learnt that one can speak to every girl without getting killed and that clubs and bars are actually designed to attract hot chicks and to talk with them. Me and my BC partner also dramatically improved our team work. Generally our positioning skills and how to approach on the street got better and we both felt more secure and confident about our pick up skills and we also added some really interesting points to our game. D3 – Streetgame in Gangnam – The grande finale Daygame at the 3rd day felt really hard `cause I was still super tired and I did not really want to approach. We started in the underground Mall of Gangnam Station. It was hard for me to find a set to open and so Redpole Q helped me a bit. Still the mall was not that big success `cause I do not really remember my favorite set. I was not really satisfied but then we went on doing gaming on the streets. I tried my best kept on approaching but I felt that my energy was weaker than on the 2nd day. On this day approaching got definitely easier because my BC Partner was supporting me and we got a lot better in positioning and how to efficiently approaching girls on the streets. We definitely burnt it to the ground and had a lot of fun. Conclusion We all knew that this Bootcamp would come to an end. Although it was hard to believe `cause it was one the most intensive and interesting experience in my whole life so far. I learnt a lot about social conditioning and how to interact with women at this time. I learnt all steps from starting a conversation to holding a conversation using KINO to do time bridging and number closing. It was definitely one of the most awesome times in my life and I felt definitely more badass after doing the BC `cause I knew that not all dudes could bare 3 days of doing PU in such an intensity. Through my Powerlifting and Strongman workouts I was pretty much used to endure pain and this experience helped me to keep my shit together. Everyone who has the opportunity and the inner strength to do a BC should do it not only to get better with women but also to get better in other daily challenge such as doing presentations, small talk, being charismatic, self-confidence and the ability to know what kind of things are important in life. I really felt more masculine, seaworthy and just grew up a lot during these only 3 days. Also my BC partner told me that he totally could see who I morphed during that short time period- just crazy! A life changing experience indeed – If I had another chance I would definitely do it again! Special Thanks - Credits Last but not least I also want to thanks Vision and Trailblazer for coming out and supporting us on our Bootcamp. You guys made it definitely a better experience and we learnt a lot and additionally had a lot more fun at the of the day! With this you also initiated a great start for being now part of the team. The final words go to Redpole Q, the master himself - nobody could have ever made this experience more awesome than him. With his enormous patience and mentorship experience, me and my BC partner could improve dramatically within just 3 days. RPQ`s range of knowledge about how to handle Asian girls is impressive and no matter what problem you have he always has super good advices - which will always work. From the beginning till the end of the Bootcamp we had an awesome time and I felt him like a mentor as well a a friend - who was always trying to push my limit! I am truly proud I had the honor to work with him together for this time. I definitely learnt a lot and if there something which is part that my life changed suddenly dramatically then meeting RPQ is one of these events in my life I will never forget! Thanks also to my cool BC Partner - I will never forget the time we spent together infield. It would have been tragic if you quited totally! Spending the time together was definitely more awesome than I was just on my own - We pushed each other a lot and could see our development! I`m proud we did it together! Thanks Bro`s it was an awesome time - but you know that before the BC is after the BC! Time to burn it to the ground and get the girls I really want to enrich my life and staying on this planet more AWESOME! CHEERS! ! !