Bachata

I doubt she hasn't slept with a guy in 2 years. More like 2 days. hehe

Mark, "I wonder if I will like her." Good line. and congrats on the FC this week.

Okay, I'm back to write more. On Dec 1, the bootcamp met at 3:00 for training and practise in Day Game. Here's how two of my sets went. My memory is fading, but I wingmanned for a 5 mixed set for someone, who did an AI for me. Fortunately, my girl was just as good looking as the one my classmate opened. RedpoleQ did a blocked the 3 male obstacles. I isolated my girl by talking to her, having her back facing her friends. Her name is Shoko, which has something to do with flying, so that gave me a perfect chance to explain to her that my job deals with zooming planes off of little boats. That formed a little bit of a connection of comfort. My kinoing came on too fast though as I have not yet developed when to back off and re-enter kino with escalation. Hey, that's why I joined the bootcamp, right? Anyway, I did seed the desire to see what Shibuya was like, moved on to another topic, and then tried a time bridge to have Shoko meet me at Shibuya in two days at 7:00 to show me Shibuya's Hachiko and big tv screens. She resisted, saying that she had only been in Tokyo for 6 months. When she left though, I was at least able to number close her. For a two set that was opened by Martin, I came in and blocked the obstacle for him, his target's very old mother (I think it was her mother). Anyway, Martin eternally owes me for talking to the old bag! I insist he considers me a blood brother. At night, we went to Ageha. I had a string of blowouts do to my lack of dominance. It was only when I say Martin manhandle a girl to go somewhere with him that I got a clue on what dominance with women is all about. Wow! Also, I was consistently beat over the head with MY OWN routine stack by RedPoleQ for running out of things to say. It was only when I was ready to pull it out and use it that I finally didn't need it. I worked some nice two sets with John, and had a lot of fun (which is what sarging is all for, right?). One girl told me she liked boxing, so I play boxed with her, spiking her BT. That was a blast. That night was also the night I did three things that I had never done before in my entire life. John and I were working on another two set, and we bounced our targets from the music area to the food court. That was awesome. Well, those two girls left later. Then John left. There was just me in the food court with some HB 8s and 9s. One target was sitting down eating. She was an HB9, and she looked like a bitch. and she was. I opened her with the takoyaki opener. she was very non-responsive, even after my palmreading her. I kept plowing and plowing, trying to kino escalate and move from qualification to comfort, but she wouldn't budge. BUT, do you know when she left? She left when I ran out of things to say and just became silent. If I had kept plowing, I think this bitch probably would have stayed and eventually warmed up. The whole set lasted about 7 minutes. Then there was this HB8. Wow! Nice body. I doc two points on her scale simply because her cheeks were a little chubby (but in a cute way). I sarged her, and everything our coaches had taught me fell into place from the opener to the kiss close. that's right, the kiss close. mmmmmmmm! RedpoleQ warned me that we had only 4 minutes to get to the bus back to Shibuya. My target told me that she would miss me. Well, I had time bridged her with a meeting in Yokohama for next Wednesday (tonight). I also number closed her. This was the success I had been looking for (well, I didn't FC her that night, but I had gotten further with her than any other targets before AND I WAS DOMINATE WITH HER). I am now in phone game with this HB8, as she flaked on me today with a phone call. She said that she lived in Kawasaki and worked in Shinjuku and had a lot of work today, so she cancelled. I told her I had a lot of work to do also. She asked when we could meet? I was too far out of my league to know how to answer that question, so I said that I didn't know since we're both so busy. She told me that we could meet next time. Then I felt like we were both racing to be the first to hang up on the other, but in a polite way. I think the race ended in a tie. I believe it was the debriefing during that night when RedPoleQ said that most of my problems will be solved when I raise my level of dominance. If I can't take what I want from a girl (the weaker sex), then how can a girl expect me to protect her from evil-doers who want to harm her? Okay, I'll finish the next day's bootcamp with another post this weekend, maybe. I'll be sarging tomorrow night and Friday night. Sarge on for fun! Bachata.

good review of your sarges

As I am preparing for a meeting with a previous kiss close, this field report will cover only the first day of the December 07 TOC Bootcamp in Tokyo. The other three days (one of them being my own "Sarging the Day After Bootcamp" day) to follow. My future wingmen and I met at TGI Friday's with coaches RedpoleQ and Allusion. The illustrious Curiousity and Kid44 were also there. We first introduced ourselves with 5 questions that the coaches had us think about before the bootcamp started (I won't give them away). It was at this time that Allusion said something that really struck a bell with me. He said that from my answers, it sounded like all I wanted was to have a marriage with a woman just so that I could get kids. I had never thought about that before. I had never thought about the fact that I didn't give a damn about who the woman would be, just as long as she was hot and fertile. This is where I started to grow, and realize that I'm going to have to be choosy about what women I want in my life. They also talk about how to improve voice tonality and it's importance (you want to be rapport breaking). RedpoleQ commented to me that I make myself look small and that I need to open my shoulders and make them assymmetrical, and then lean back in the chair...and not to cross the arms. We went over a bunch of other stuff and then went to Starbucks. That's where we started sarging. The first two set I went up to, I asked a woman if she knew a good takoyaki place. She said she didn't want to go to takoyaki with me and gave me a bitchy look. I ejected, but with RedpoleQ's encouragement, I re-opened the set and told her that I want takoyaki, and that I'm definitely not interested in taking her. She looked at me with a little bit of embarrassment and respect and said she didn't know where a takoyaki place was. Then I ejected again. That turned it into MY decision not to hang out with her. Next I opened a one set and did the takoyaki opener again. The woman said she didn't know of a place. Her answers were slow and she would look at me and then look away. I moved into fluff talk. I pulled out my routine stack and read about the palm hand reading. I tried to go for her hand from across the table, but it felt awkward, so I ejected. Next, we went to Muze. One of my classmates opened a three set, and then I was introduced as the wingman. My classmate got the HB8, so I kept the HB7 and her HB-4 friend occupied. I was progressing the kinoing with the HB7 pretty well, going through the routine stack from opening to progressing the kinoing, attraction and qualification phases as soon as possible. What I couldn't believe was that I had this list of things to say to her right in my hand, and she didn't even care. I wanted to isolate her from the HB-4, so I pulled her to a couch in another room, but she pulled the HB-4 with her. I tried to keep them both occupied, but Curiousity (if I remember correctly) came to the rescue and isolated the HB-4. Then I could run my fingers on the HB7s back. Basically, she let me touch her anywhere where her friend couldn't see. I got creative when she asked me to smoke. I said "no," but I'd like to try since I do own and smoke a hookah (which is true, by the way). She was going to give me my very own cigarette, but I put it back in the box and took her's from her hand. We shared that one. (BTW, this makes for a nice push-pull, where you take a puff, bring the cigarette to her lips, and as she opens her lips to attempt to take a puff, you pull the cigarette away and take another puff). Eventually, the HB8 got free somehow and came over to her friends and chatted with them in Japanese. Then they wanted to "go to the bathroom" and I got blown out. Disclaimer: I am only describing what I remember. I remember other things going on with other wingmen, but I was too involved with the HB7 to concentrate on their details. The rest of the night, I practiced some more with the routine stack in hand, getting blown out time and time again once I got to the qualification or attraction phases. This is my first field report. Construction criticism is welcome!