Approach mastery bootcamp-24/04/09-27/04/09

[Paladin]

Bootcamp-24/04/09-27/04/09

 

 

I have recently participated in a weekend approach mastery bootcamp. What a grueling, but ultimately rewarding experience. It has changed my beliefs and the way I act and react in all social situations, especially with women. Now, I have the confidence that I can go on a night out or in a shopping mall during the day and set up some dates. The bootcamp was all that I hoped for and more.

 

Friday 24/04/09-Night game

 

I met up with the two instructors, RedpoleQ and Blue Mystery, in addition to another bootcamp participant, Alex. I had met them at a free seminar on the weekend before and already knew the instructors were really genuine, good guys. They aren't goofy or geeky in any way and are congruent. For the bootcamp we went to American Diner restuarant in Itaewon. They started off by asking how we were with women and what we wanted to acheive with them and in our life in general. They really helped to increase my beliefs in what is possible for my life and told us how important it is to have a great support around you along the way. After eating they covered the theory of the first part of the system. This was open, attraction and qualification. RedpoleQ told us not to get any phone numbers on the first night so that we could get the system embedded into us without extra distractions. After about 3 hours we met the second bootcamp student, Ace and left for Hongdae. I was excited, but at the same time very nervous.

 

We went to a great club called M2. I started chatting to a lovely hired model standing behind a stand at the jacket que. She was smoking and after opening I asked her "how many of these do you smoke?" I thought it was a neg, but Blue Mystery informed me to always keep my comments positive. When we got into the club RedpoleQ showed us how to spin girls to create quick attraction in a loud club. He also showed us around and told us the places which were best to chat to ladies. My wingman and me took turns to open sets. It was difficult to talk to the women as the music was really loud. I was leaning in and i had RedpoleQ grap my back and make me lean back whilst I was speaking to the women. He told me I had to start projecting my voice more and lean back. I got into some good interactions and I could see some of the women were attracted. I quickly learnt the importance of bringing in wingmen to help you. At first I was getting interest and then one of them would pull the other away. Having a wingman come in really stops this from happening. I opened two nice girls and since I was the one to start talking to them I got to choose the girl, i.e. "This is the bad girl". This girl was very cute and showed real interest in me. I went through the whole process apart from collecting her phone number. This put me on a real high and I started getting more interest when I opened.

 

I joined BlueMystery near the bar and he told me to ask two beautiful girls if they are the waitresses. I did and they laughed so I followed up by asking if they are sisters. I chatted briefly about the dj and the music but then couldn't think how to follow up. I asked Blue Mystery who was behind me, what I could do. He told me to weave my drink ticket in her hair. Poww, it worked. She started putting her arms around my neck and dancing with her amazing boobs on me. I was in awe and this girl looked as though she would kiss me. I had a mind blank for 5 seconds or so and hence her friend pulled her away onto the dance floor. This was totally surreal as the girl hugging me was a true 9! Awesome. Next time I knew I had to follow up better by handling her friend. We later went outside and opened some women on the street. I got into some great interactions. One that stuck in my head were two girls which Alex opened. He brought me in and introduced me. I got to talk to a really hot, tall girl with a great face (. She showed a lot of interest and I made sure to touch her and build up kino escalation. She looked really comfortable and I qualified her easily. I was really starting to get good with women. Altogher that night I opened about 40 women and had good interactions with about 25. This night was almost unbelievable and an amzing experience. At 5 am we went to a cafe for a debrief. RedpoleQ askedus to talk about 5 things we did well and 5 things we can improve. I was ready for bed.

 

Saturday 25/04/09

 

Day game

 

We all met up at 3 pm at CoEx shopping mall food court. The instructors talked to us about some more theory. They told us we could get phone numbers and that we could take the girls to a different location, like an ice cream shop, clothes shop or bookstore. When you take a girl somewhere different, it is called a 'bounce.' I was really happy I could get some phone numbers. After gobblin on some pizza and chatting about some bounce locations it was time to chat to some women. Firstly, RedpoleQ told one of us to open a set of two pretty girls sat on a table next to us. I volunteered to go first. I was shit scared but I opened with a funny opener and got a good response. They still seemed shy and cautious, but I carried on talking to them and soon introduced my wing. I grabbed a chair and sat next to them. It was scary for me to get a chair and sit next to them, but they didn't object very much. I chatted to one of the girls and Ace chatted to another. During the interaction RedpoleQ was yelling things at me that I could do better. For example he kept on saying "more kino!" which made the experience even more gutwrenching even more rewarding. We were chatting to the girls for maybe 20 minutes when I tried to get a phone number. After a little bit of objection she gave it to me. A great start and eye opener. Next Ace opened, but he couldn't get enough interest. RedpoleQ wanted me to open two girls sat down. I was scared as there was little space and I would have to sit right next to them. Anyhow, I opened them asking where the aquarium was and they answered, although didn't look very open to a conversation and looked a bit shy. When I got a little more interest I broght in my wingman, but we couldn't chat to them in English very easily and so they walked off.

 

We all went walking around the shopping mall. I sat next to a girl by herself and talked to her for maybe 10 minutes although she was a little weird. I went through the whole process although I didn't bounce her. I got her phone umber. Ace and myself got into a great interaction with two nice looking girls. We spun them around and I qualified my girl well. I got her phone number and she seemed realling willing to meet up with me. This girl was really pretty and a nice person that I could see myself dating. This was the best interaction of the day. Altogether I approached about 15 sets in the shopping mall and got into good interactions with 10 of them.

 

Night game

 

We all met up Gangnam and we got taught some more theory on two routines. These were the question game and strawberry fields. We went to a club called Eden, which is under the Ritz Carlton hotel. It was a fantastic nightclub and absolutely packed with foxy ladies. I started off with Ace as my wingman. Ace and I took turns to open sets. Most of the sets I opened were jawdropping. Most of the groups wouldn't show interest at first, but once I projected relaxed energy and was not letting them intimidate me their reactions changed to much more interested and attracteded. I soon learnt the importance of not having silence and to keep up saying funny lines (I.e. How did you girls get in here, you must only be 16!) a surprising amount of the women changed from teir first reactions. In this club the women seemed picky and thats probably because they can choose who they want. It seemed as soon as they saw I was confident and held my ground they seemed to get wet in between the legs. Ha. As soon as I got some interest I brought in my wingman. This was a massive help and means I could focus on one girl and she wasn't going to be pulled away by her friend. Ace was a great wingman and he really engaged the women.

 

 

Later a girl approached me and asked me "Are you Korean?" haha. She was a nice person and easygoing although she had herpes on her lip. Arghh. She had a lovely friend which she introduced me who Alex (Alex was also a great wingman, who had good inner game and natural ability) was with. Both girls were obviously into us and so we decided to bounce them to a different location. We walked them to the Ritz hotel lobby and they said "lets go home" whilst still holding on to our arms. We both felt like pimps but we had to get back to the club soon and I didn't want the herpes. Haha. Therefore we just took them inside the lobby of the hotel and chatted to them before getting their numbers and setting up a date. They followed us back to the nightclub. Later, I was with BlueMystery and he was helping me. He kept on telling me to keep my drink below stomach level as this was a bit of a habit for me. I opened a two set and one of the girls didn't want to speak with me but her friend was interested and happy to speak with me. I think some of the girls have bitch shields but some just aren't confident speaking English. Anyway, I was chatting to this cute Japenese girl and she was great to speak too. I asked her a lot of qualification questions and made sure to do my kino( touching her) well. Her friend also left us chatting pretty much straight away and I knew she must be interested. After chatting to her for maybe twenty minutes she said she needed to find her friends and so I set up a date, place and time (time bridge). This night I opened about 40 women and felt like a rock star. The girls were extremely high quality, but were really showing interest in me. There were only three sets that completely blew me out.

 

We ended the night by a debrief in a cafe. I was buzzing and so happy that I decided to do this bootcamp. The way I saw the world had completed changed and the new behaviours were starting to feel more natural to me now. It was like it was who I was and not a way I was acting. I knew it was going to be real lasting change.

 

Sunday 26/04/09

 

We met at a coffee shop in Myong Dong. The coffee shop was huge and had 5 floors. When I was waiting in the que I opened a 7 with "do you know if they do bagels?" She responded well. I asked her what she was doing today and she told me that she was going to the cinema. I tried to chat to her about movies but her knowledge on moivies wasn't great and she didn't seem to be too comfortable speaking in English. Anyhow, it was still good practise. I went upstairs to meet the crew. It was great to see them and we all felt like a big family. I felt close with these guys as we had experienced so much together and shared the same interest.

 

RedpoleQ told us some theory about story telling. We had to think of a hero story, in which we would tell the girl how we had a weakness and how we overcame it in the end. This understandably would make the girls feel closer to us and like they had known us for longer. We all told our stories and did ok. RedpoleQ retold our stroies in his own way and made them much better using better voice tonality and make them more interesting. This was really useful. Right, time to get us to open girls. Ace was first and opened two girls sat in the corner. He did ok but didn't sit down for ages and looked a bit awkward. ReqpoleQ shouted across for him to sit down. Haha. He did this. Soon I was told to go over and handle the friend. I was pretty comfortable and sat down and just said hi and let Ace introduce me to them. The girls were only average looking but were friendly and good practise for us. This was the first time I've sat next to a girl in a coffee shop in my life and so was a little scary. We did well and engaged our girls. After 15 minutes we got a phone number. Her friend told Ace she had a boyfriend and told me that her friend was too busy. I learnt that the things girls say aren't very important and they are often just shit tests in order to check you are comfortable in your reality. Therefore I didn't let this move me and grabbed the phone number.

 

Right next set, RedpoleQ took me upstairs and asked me to choose a set. I opened two nice girls but everyone was watching and they din't respond to what I was saying. I freaked and walked away. RedpoleQ asked me how it went and made me go back to them. I was literally shittin my pants. Luckily they had made a run. Haha. Next, I open a set of two girls on the floor below and one of them is cute. There is only one spare seat with one of the girls handbags on it. I dominantly ask her if I can sit there and she doesn't object removing her bag for me. Reality shift! :0 The girls are a little puzzled as to why I'm talking to them, but they warm up quickly. Ace came over and I introduced him to the girls. He took the less attractive of the two as I opened. Bonus. We both engaged the girls but it wasn't easy as their English wasn't very good. I arranged to see my girl the following Saturday and drink coffee near to my house. I said Ace needed to find a new jacket and asked if they could help us go shopping. I stood up and grabbed my girls arm gently. They didn't hesitate and came along with us. They seemed pretty comfortable and like they were really enjoying the experience. We went to two clothing stores with them before Ace wanted to bale. He didn't seem like he liked his girl and said he wanted to go back to the coffee shop. The girls stayed in the clothing store and I got a hug from mine before saying goodbye.

 

We went back to the Pascucci coffee and RedpoleQ took Ace and me on the street to do some street game. I approached two hot girls at an earring stand. They were cold but I was relaxed and having fun with them. I put some silly earrings on the girl and said they look good. I got a laugh from both girls but I don't think they spoke much English and they moved on. I also opened a very cute girl working outside a beauty shop. She told me where I could find a good Korean restuarant and then I accused her of working at Mcdonalds. She seemed a little offended and I didn't follow up as it would be too difficult since she was working. Ace approached two girls and he brought me in. Ace was doing well but I wasn't attracted to the girl I was chatting with. The girls seemed in a rush and had to go.

 

We then went to a Korean restuarant and we chatted about what each of us had done well. Blue Mystery and RedpoleQ payed for the dinner and drinks which was kind of them. They also gave us a pickup name. RedpoleQ also asked if anyone wanted a refund and genuinely said he would give us the money back! That speaks volumes about the kinds of instructors they are. They both really care for the students and want the best for them.

 

I gained a massive amount from the bootcamp. It has made me a lot more relaxed speaking with women and it makes a huge difference having a structure to use whenever talking to women I'm attracted to. I am really happy I took the bootcamp and there is NO substitute to putting the theory into action and having constant feedback. I recommend this to anyone serious about finding more and better women.

 

Paladin AKA Ryan

[BlueMystery]

Paladin,

it was a pleasure being by your side at that Boot Camp.

 

Looking forward to gaming with you before you cross the Sea of Korea.

 

 

BlueM

[RedpoleQ]

That was a wicked boot camp. Can't wait to run game with you again when I'm back in June!