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Great to see you out tonight animal! Really want to see you get laid ASAP! Your new challenge sounds like a good step in the right direction. When you go to time Bridge it's pressure on. It's a compliance point. The fewer compliance points that you ask a girl to jump through before the the better. Sometimes in the moment if it's very on than a Time Bridge is a good idea. However if it's most normal sets where there's a lot of ambiguity about how much either person likes the other than leaving it very casual and light is pressure off and makes her feel more mysterious about possibly meeting you up. In other words, you do not have to time Bridge every single time. I would ask you to experiment with not time bridging and then just using text to set up the day too. Simply test this out and see if it works for you. Wishing you the best! Fighting!

This is all very unusual. I have never experienced nor heard of anything similiar. What stands out immediately is #1 her asking for and taking $40 "for me" and #2 her getting you to pay for her hotel room that night that she was already in. #3 Her saying "Do you like to fuck"....Very not Korean. #4 Another condom on the floor. How much do you know about this girl? Where does she live? What is her job? Because it sounds like she might be a sex Worker. $40 is cheap for full sex in Korea, so she probably liked you well enough, or needed someone to pay for her hotel that night, or planned to take $140 since she pressed the $200 button. Be careful with sex workers because the are adept at seperating "Johns" from their money. I could be wrong. This was an Itaewon girl after all. So maybe western rules do apply. But still....Strange. You should definitely use a condom. Also: Um....That is not a boyfriend. 6 days? no. Cheated? No. So you need to understand that there are real boyfriends and not real boyfriends. That label gets thrown around quite loosely in Korea. Partially because girls will "only sleep with their boyfriend" so Korean guys ask a girl to be their girlfriend on the 1st or 2nd date. This makes it ok for the girl to have sex, but that is NOT a real relationship. So don't buy into other peoples lame frames. Try to study and see the reality beyond the labels. Is she Korean? Why were you texting in English?

About freaking time! Welcome to the community!

Calling this one a "trial by fire" because the circumstances for me were pretty bad. I was dead sick, sore throat, dead tired, body aches, a real shit storm. What I needed to be doing was laying in bed all day and night. Instead I did the Approach bootcamp. Friday: Had our discussion and then went to Octagon. Pretty rough night for me in terms of physical well-being. RedpoleQ pushed me into many sets and was a big help in guiding me to adjust my approach. Not too many really hot girls, or people really. I did run a decent set with an Asian Russian girl who was hella cute but did not know where to take it....Winged Red in a good set with some top level girls, which was good for seeing him model how to run a set well and plow into a set that did not open easy. Saturday: After the days talk we did some coffee shop game. I have huge resistance to this-limiting belief: I am bothering them- and had fun breaking through it. tough though it was. After a few hours of street/underground/Cafe hunting we took a break and I tried to catch some sleep before the nights events. Saturday night we went to Syndrome, which was off the hook. Early on I had a set with a seriously hot girl that was going well but fizzled. I wasn't kinoing hard enough is what I gathered. Did a bunch of approaches and continued to make small adjustments and focus on each new bottleneck. No love by the end of the night and my voice was shot. But good times all around. Sunday was all Daygame. Street and cafe. Cafe is still hard for me, almost like that feeling you first get approaching girls when you are a noob. But much better results on Sunday. I got 4 # closes and am texting with three. Big lesson for the day was to recognize when a girl is keen and to not disqualify if English level seems low. I have been in Game for a few years. A seasoned veteran. This might have worked against me, stuck in my ways, bad habits, etc, but I tenderized my mind and ego in preparation for the bootcamp. I was a soft piece of clay to be molded. I have reached a plateau with self learning and I want to get High value women and retain them as regulars much more often and consistently. I feel much more powerful and in control with the new knowledge base I gained form the bootcamp. I really wish I had not been a cheap bastard and I had done the bootcamp two years ago. I might have been banging more top level girls more consistently and I know I would have had more time and energy to focus on my learning. Se la vie. The biggest breakthroughs came for me in terms of what changes I needed to make to be Korea/Asia specific. Basically everything...But here is a list of things I need to improve: BT Spike stack Facial expressiveness physical expressiveness (the more you look like a Kakao emoticon, the better) Physically involving the girl Kino-faster, stronger, harder adjusting my idea of what keen looks like (if they are staying they are playing) time bridging instadating Continuing in low English situations Texting So I am basically going to go back to basics and start with the BT spikes, and work through each aspect until I have the system perfected. My biggest problem moving forward is motivation/lethargy. I have not texted the girls today and even though I asked a girl out yesterday I was hoping she would flake because I was tired (she did). I had time bridged HBredshirt for today, but again I am tired and just want to chill/go home/fuck off. I have another timebridge for tomorrow too. And Socrates is likely to want to go game in cafes today. But I am just like, I been at work all day, my brain wants a break. If I drink caffeine this time of day then I can't sleep, which makes me tired, and the cycle repeats itself. FML. Anyways, looking forward to hunting and perfecting the craft with you guys! Oh, And a special shout out to all the homies who came and gamed with us!!!! I don't know all your handles yet, but much love!!! Sarge on brave soldiers!