Shanghai Bootcamp with Kane Vast

[Puck]

I gained a lot of value from this weekend bootcamp. I’ll break my report into the sections below. Shed loads of learning took place, I'll review the highlights.

 

My intro: 25 year old Brit. Utterly useless with girls until last year when I started trying to change. Currently have a couple of regular gf’s and some side dishes. Never bang chicks over 7/10. Night game - enjoy, solid leads and the odd ONS. Day Game - flirted with it but never got close to developing the skill set and habitually practising.

 

Bootcamp Instructor: Kane Vast was our instructor. I like his bald head and drug dealer appearance, this made me confident that his results come from his game rather than riding on his looks.

 

Night game set control: Our first night out Kane focussed me and my fellow Bootcampee (yet to select a PUA name, I'll call him Derek for now) on set control. All the logistics of opening, introducing the wing, dealing with obstacles etc etc. I go out weekly/bi-weekly and this was invaluable. The amount of times a girl drags her friend away and me and my wing are left holding our balls - simple positioning and wingman communication can solve these issues. Until now I spent very little time interacting with my target's friends, especially in Asia this is important.

 

Day game - Two daytime sessions of daygame pushed my boundaries. Previously I had just opened chicks in malls, chatted nonsense and tried to wechat close (Chinese Whatsapp). Turns out that using things like qualifying, seeding, time bridging as well as approaching angles/positioning and smiling helps! After Kane asked me to approach a 4 set in a cafe, I thought I was going to be eaten alive. I approached, waffled and then he sent in Derek and told me Derek would look after the 3 chicks while I work on my target. Amazing. Sounds simple but I'd never have thought of it.

 

Night game kino/sexing up - Second night out I had sex on the dance floor. Just joking. But Kane almost did, I'll explain later. So Kane personalised this night for me as he'd identified my weakness in kino and building sexual chemistry (something to do with my Christian upbringing). I used Kane's sexual games and kino moves and saw instant results. Turns out women like sexual men. Kane's live in-set feedback and instructions were great, it's easy to forget things in set but 'Use the strawberry game!' and 'Ask her if she'll call you Daddy when you shag tonight' kept things spicy. Kane himself demonstrated kiss close opens and how some girls are happy with heavy fondling after a few seconds of interaction.

 

Inner game - One exercise we did was develop a Hero Story to tell chicks to demonstrate vulnerability and build deep comfort. Kane didn't call this 'inner game' but the outcome was to really help my inner game as I went deep into an insecurity of mine and expressed it, which I hadn't before. It was to do with overcoming my fear of stand up comedy and public failure despite loving comedy. This fear was planted in me by my similar personalitied father. I also really needed to be made aware that women like to see a man's vulnerability. Just another reminder of the emotional value a chick can bring us, as well as the great sex and sandwiches.

 

Summary: Lots more reflections and realisations on this bootcamp but I'll end it here. Oh and the reflection sessions after each day game/night game bout were a great way to analyse, record and consolidate the learning. Now I need to focus on qualifying women (during sets and relationships) and ramping up the sexual temperature as well as building day game into a habit. Boom.

 

Cheers Kane

[RedpoleQ]

Nice work, man! Welcome to the party!

[kanevast]

I'm still confused as to why I look like a drug dealer.

 

I never thought that way about myself.