@Ditto thanks for your input! Yeah, that sounds like a solid plan for digging deeper and to get to understand her behaviour better!
I got a reply from her this morning (did not follow up with any other message) asking "When would it be good (to see)?" I replied that either Wednesday or Thursday would be good (also since she said she noe could meet on weekdays due to her quitting her job). She replied "seems you are busy on the weekend!" I replied with "I just want to cuddle my Schokobaby as soon as possible *cute sticker*".
She sent back a heart emoticon. I replied "I just would be happy to see meine suesse Kim Peach also during the week especially now since you have more free time :)."[message read but no reply].
Maybe calling her would be way easier to get her to reply directly. As said reliability isn't her strength at all. I am also sometimes questioning her excuses when she suddenly says she has to leave - she is just a weirdo...Still, this is purgatory and writing all is darn painful but it might solves some issues or will give me the morivation to ASAP look for a better alternative! Let us see how it goes tomorrow with the follow up - as said low expectations. I almost care 0% if I meet her or not because it is very infrequently anyway and I never know if she suddenly has to leave when we meet. #thegirlpurgatoryisreal