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Perfect! Yup! Time to start schooling the no-FR writing n00bs! Great replies and I'm looking forward to what's next.

It was the 3 set of models I opened at some event I walked by. The girl I decided to target because she spoke english said she was lesbian, and so I got her coworkers wechat too (she offered to help me) When you put it that way it makes perfect sense haha! I was wondering about other things that could trigger ASD, though now that I've thought about it I just need to think carefully about whether or not I could with my actions. And to calibrate via experience too Their boyfriends also don't know how to manage them too. That does make sense, I forget sometimes my aim is to be far better than the average guy at dealing with girls You are right that is both true, and better. I just have to think about how to say it without sounding like I'm defending being a miser haha What's more important? Seeming normal, or getting what you want? Ultimately, it doesn't matter. You just should understand that jumping through a girl's hoops doesn't necessarily mean that you're more likely to close. It only means you'll be more likely to get the meet. So, you need to consider whether you're willing to give that level of compliance for the meet. Also, keep in mind that if she "seemed keen" then she's MORE likely to give you the compliance you want. In fact, the amount of compliance you can get IS the measure for keeness. Okay, so what I need to do is decide my own willingness to give compliance and make a baseline. Though, rather than seeming strange, maybe it'd be better to say that it seems like giving low compliance would reduce her willingness to give compliance in return. Right! Which is back to how value (and keenness as her perceived value of you) and compliance are two sides of the same thing like you said in bootcamp. The light bulb just turned on lol Haha does this mean I get to join in on the "you should write an FR about it" train? This is usually a result of over-confidence, laziness or BOTH! It was both. ? That won't be happening again any time soon though! Thanks!