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    Sexy Summer Challenge

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    1) run stronger attraction game

    2) progress the set faster

     

    What does this mean?

     

    1. Should I qualify her more?

    2. Is this do comfort?

    Stronger attraction game means primarily more/better BT spikes, and DHVs if the set is hooked enough for that. It's easier to DHV if you have enough interaction that you can base the DHVs you roll out on the qualification that you're getting.

     

    Progressing the set faster means moving through the phases shorter so you get to the seeding and time-bridging within a few minutes.

    Sexy Summer Challenge

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    The ways you can handle it are:

     

    1) run stronger attraction game

    2) progress the set faster

    3) go with the set as long as possible (go to where she's meeting friends, game the obstacle when she shows up, etc)

     

    Great to see you getting out there on the regular, man!

    Sexy Summer Challenge

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    It's good to see your dedication, ANIMAL! All of these small adjustments add up to big changes in the medium term. Keep doing the work (and having fun while you're doing it) and you're following the path to greatness!

    Sexy Summer Challenge

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    When you go to time Bridge it's pressure on. It's a compliance point. The fewer compliance points that you ask a girl to jump through before the the better. Sometimes in the moment if it's very on than a Time Bridge is a good idea. However if it's most normal sets where there's a lot of ambiguity about how much either person likes the other than leaving it very casual and light is pressure off and makes her feel more mysterious about possibly meeting you up. In other words, you do not have to time Bridge every single time. I would ask you to experiment with not time bridging and then just using text to set up the day too. Simply test this out and see if it works for you.

    Tattoo, I think that you should explain your position in more detail. Are suggesting that compliance tests in general are a net negative for the set?

     

    I think that broadly speaking, you are correct but for quite different reasons than the ones you're giving. From my perspective, a #close is lower compliance than a time-bridge. So, if you do it, you'll get more numbers, but you'll have more numbers from girls who won't meet you.

     

    When you time-bridge, you get fewer but more high quality leads.

     

    One of the advantages to trying to time-bridge is that you'll also get objections that you can handle in person that would be more difficult to manage over text.

     

    I generally decide how much compliance I want from the set according to how into the girl I am. If she won't time-bridge but I'm really keen, then I'll still get the number, knowing that I'll probably have to text her a bunch to get her out. On the other hand if I'm not into her, I won't get the number if she doesn't time-bridge.

     

    As for this idea of being mysterious, I can't say anything about that. I haven't found mystery to appeal to most women. However, it probably has a lot to do with how you run the set.

     

    Doing this wouldn't be a bad experiment but the results are obvious. He'll get more numbers...

     

    The reason I ADDED time-bridging to my game back in the day is because I ended up with a bunch of useless numbers and I was tired of that and I didn't get as good a gauge of how I was running the set.

     

    As for "pressure on" vs "pressure off" I think that how well you do it will determine if she feels pressured or not and not doing it alone.

     

    I'd definitely like to hear your position on this in more detail, so I can see how it differs from mine.

    Re-establishing contact

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    You should probably have asked her what she meant about being a weirdo. When girls say things, don't assume you know what it means. Always get more info.

     

    You should check out her facebook and see if you can figure out anything interesting that's happened in her life since you spoke to her that you can use to open the conversation. Especially anything that she was struggling with or working on.

     

    Mainly by checking her facebook you might come up with something or you might find that there is no point in asking about something that was happening when you were still seeing her.

     

    You can post some ideas on here after you brainstorm a bit and we can workshop them.

     

    And as for whether or not you should...if you don't try you definitely won't get.

    FRs: 29/8 Itaewon

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    Set 1: Itaewon

    In the dialogue, the chick is running the show. That's not good at all. If you run it you can direct it in more helpful ways. You run it by being the one who's talking and asking questions so that she's reacting to you instead of the other way around.

     

    Bad! Bad! BAD!

     

    Why? Because she's looking for reasons to eliminate you. The idea is that she's having so much from with your attraction game that she's not thinking about eliminating you and then you run qualification so that SHE'S the one who's trying not to get eliminated.

     

    Once you lose control of the set, you're done, almost every time because you don't know enough about the set to manage the potential problems that might come up.

     

    1) I got a bit of isolation going, as much as was possible in that short period of time

    2) The set may have been to large for just me to handle (5 girls all in all)

    Actually, you isolated too early...you needed to get the friends liking you so they didn't fuck you up.

     

    Glad to see you posting and looking forward to more.

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