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What does this mean? 1. Should I qualify her more? 2. Is this do comfort? Stronger attraction game means primarily more/better BT spikes, and DHVs if the set is hooked enough for that. It's easier to DHV if you have enough interaction that you can base the DHVs you roll out on the qualification that you're getting. Progressing the set faster means moving through the phases shorter so you get to the seeding and time-bridging within a few minutes.
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The ways you can handle it are: 1) run stronger attraction game 2) progress the set faster 3) go with the set as long as possible (go to where she's meeting friends, game the obstacle when she shows up, etc) Great to see you getting out there on the regular, man!
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Excellent. That's much better! Good work and keep up the hustle!
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From now on, when you list your sets, include one thing you could have done better or differently in that set.
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It's good to see your dedication, ANIMAL! All of these small adjustments add up to big changes in the medium term. Keep doing the work (and having fun while you're doing it) and you're following the path to greatness!
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Tattoo, I think that you should explain your position in more detail. Are suggesting that compliance tests in general are a net negative for the set? I think that broadly speaking, you are correct but for quite different reasons than the ones you're giving. From my perspective, a #close is lower compliance than a time-bridge. So, if you do it, you'll get more numbers, but you'll have more numbers from girls who won't meet you. When you time-bridge, you get fewer but more high quality leads. One of the advantages to trying to time-bridge is that you'll also get objections that you can handle in person that would be more difficult to manage over text. I generally decide how much compliance I want from the set according to how into the girl I am. If she won't time-bridge but I'm really keen, then I'll still get the number, knowing that I'll probably have to text her a bunch to get her out. On the other hand if I'm not into her, I won't get the number if she doesn't time-bridge. As for this idea of being mysterious, I can't say anything about that. I haven't found mystery to appeal to most women. However, it probably has a lot to do with how you run the set. Doing this wouldn't be a bad experiment but the results are obvious. He'll get more numbers... The reason I ADDED time-bridging to my game back in the day is because I ended up with a bunch of useless numbers and I was tired of that and I didn't get as good a gauge of how I was running the set. As for "pressure on" vs "pressure off" I think that how well you do it will determine if she feels pressured or not and not doing it alone. I'd definitely like to hear your position on this in more detail, so I can see how it differs from mine.
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Great write up and welcome to the party! Glad you got so much out of your time with Kane. I'll be sure to let him know! Lols
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Great Boot Camp FR, man. You've been hitting it hard ever since and it's been great to see your progress and your successes.
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The Notebook Part 1 http://chilp.it/13bd6eb The Notebook Part 2 http://chilp.it/72d798a
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Awesome write up! I'm glad you got so much from the boot camp and it's great having you as part of the team!
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Approach Mastery Bootcamp with Kane Vast June 2017
RedpoleQ replied to JediMaster's topic in Bootcamp Field Reports
Awesome boot camp FR, man. I'm looking forward to meeting you sometime next year. We've had several 30yo versions come through our program and if they put in the effort their virginity doesn't last long. -
Awesome times that weekend! Was really impressed that you bounced TWO set! You crushed it! Welcome to the party!
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Sounds like you had a great boot camp experience! Looking forward to reading more posts from you on the forum and I hope to meet you in person sometime soon too!
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Taipei Approach w/RedPoleQ Aug'17 More Than My Money's Worth
RedpoleQ replied to moonshot's topic in Bootcamp Field Reports
That was an awesome weekend. You killed it! McConnell may have gotten more than your money's worth from it too winging you on that 2-set outside of OMNI! Lols -
You should probably have asked her what she meant about being a weirdo. When girls say things, don't assume you know what it means. Always get more info. You should check out her facebook and see if you can figure out anything interesting that's happened in her life since you spoke to her that you can use to open the conversation. Especially anything that she was struggling with or working on. Mainly by checking her facebook you might come up with something or you might find that there is no point in asking about something that was happening when you were still seeing her. You can post some ideas on here after you brainstorm a bit and we can workshop them. And as for whether or not you should...if you don't try you definitely won't get.
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It's not that you don't talk to your target much at first...it's that you talk to everyone else just long enough that they can't really be rude to you without violating social norms.
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In the dialogue, the chick is running the show. That's not good at all. If you run it you can direct it in more helpful ways. You run it by being the one who's talking and asking questions so that she's reacting to you instead of the other way around. Bad! Bad! BAD! Why? Because she's looking for reasons to eliminate you. The idea is that she's having so much from with your attraction game that she's not thinking about eliminating you and then you run qualification so that SHE'S the one who's trying not to get eliminated. Once you lose control of the set, you're done, almost every time because you don't know enough about the set to manage the potential problems that might come up. Actually, you isolated too early...you needed to get the friends liking you so they didn't fuck you up. Glad to see you posting and looking forward to more.
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You crushed it over the boot camp weekend! It was awesome working with you, man. I'm eagerly looking forward to running a two set of 170+cm girls with you one day! That will be AWESOME!
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RedpoleQ Bootcamp Seoul May 2017
RedpoleQ replied to Armin van Buuren's topic in Bootcamp Field Reports
Now, I know why you haven't been posting in the Alumni chat...too busy posting up in the bedroom! Good work, remember these lessons and keep at it! -
Field Report - May 2017 Seoul Boot Camp
RedpoleQ replied to Island Boy's topic in Bootcamp Field Reports
Glad you got so much out of the boot camp this past weekend! I'm looking forward to heading out your way too to find tourist beach love! I'm pretty sure it won't be too hard to get a gang together to make the trip! Looking forward to hearing how you put all of this stuff into practice going forward! -
Glad you got so much out of the boot camp! Great write up and looking forward to seeing you next time you're in Seoul!
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Nice, man! Good to have you on board! Already been enjoying your contributions to the group chat discussion, and would appreciate you writing a post about finding bi-sexual girls.
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Approach Mastery Bootcamp Shanghai 2017/03/10
RedpoleQ replied to MonteCristo's topic in Bootcamp Field Reports
NICE! Glad to have you on board and welcome to the party! -
Glad you got so much out of the boot camp! Kane is awesome and he knows what he's doing. Good to have you as a part of this community that we've built and I can't wait to meet you in person. Keep at it!
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That's awesome, man! Welcome to the party! Good work and keep at it!